Synopsis
Tools for tracking motives in thought and conversation; tools for reading between the lines with greater comprehension, a word of the week service that translates cutting-edge insights from the life and social sciences for application to everyday life produced by Jeremy Sherman Ph.D., M.P.P. a guy who wonders a lot, researches the origins and nature of doubt, ambiguity, purpose, life, significance and the fundamental patterns that drive our decisions. Sherman also writes a blog for Psychology Today called "Ambigamy: Insights for the deeply romantic and deeply skeptical."
Episodes
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I am Sarah Palin: Sleazy right wing tricks we all use
07/04/2010 Duration: 10minAn enthusiastic reader wrote to ask me questions about what makes me tick, "Are you trying to make people think? To make them think a certain way? Do you just enjoy the writing?" All of the above, but on the second question, yes I am a man with a mission. I am a missionary. I'm trying to put a le...
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Raison d’entre: A parable about the origins of beauty
19/03/2010 Duration: 07minThe older we get the harder it is to start new lasting romantic relationships. I can explain it by way of an old joke, a fundamental principle, and a new parable. An old joke: A little girl, sitting on her grandpa's lap asked "Did God make me?" "Yes," said her grandpa. "And did God make you ...
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Strategic Gullibility Pt. 1: Real and perceived security through conscious self-deception
21/01/2010 Duration: 08minMy life is so completely cushy that I can afford to visit distressing thoughts and scenarios. I can watch a movie like Slumdog Millionaire and feel empathy from my safe vantage point. I can even find the ending a little hokey. I'm betting that it wouldn't be so easy if I were suffering more. Peopl...
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Affirmationomics: Following the honey trail to what REEEAALLY motivates us
15/01/2010 Duration: 10min"Every life could be said to be defined by two great love stories. The first -- the story of our quest for sexual love -- is well known and well charted. Its vagaries form the staple of music and literature; it is socially accepted and celebrated. The second -- the story of our quest for love from ...
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Bipolar Ambigamy: On not admitting you're sending mixed messages
04/01/2010 Duration: 09minLife is sweet; life is dangerous. You have to be positive; you have to be careful. Love makes the world go round; people are scary. I'm an ambigamist not just about embracing a partner but every aspect of life. I watch myself and everyone I know wrestle with the tension between open and close...
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Externally self-motivated: A winding tale of love, unemployment, evolution, theology, apples, and oranges
27/12/2009 Duration: 11minThe podcast is back. Click the buttons above to have this article read or sped-read to you. My writing drives some people crazy because I make big jumps from one topic to another. One minute I'm talking romance, the next I'm talking the origins of life. I aim to edit for smooth transitions but t...
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Love, work, play: Physics, organism, organization and romance in a nutshell
16/12/2009 Duration: 10minThe podcast is back. Click the buttons above to have this article read or speedread to you. Meg, a single woman in San Francisco had her habits and routines. She did yoga after work pretty much every day. Some nights she got together with friends; other nights she stayed home and watched DVDs or ...
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Ad laxus fallacy: They drove you into the sand but that doesn't mean they're on solid ground.
07/12/2009 Duration: 06minThe podcast is back. Click the buttons above to have this article read or spedread to you. A Holiday gift for someone thoughtful in your life? Consider the New York Times Best-selling graphic novel Logicomix. It's a beautiful story about the death of the 2,400-year-old dream of creating a system...