Orgasmic Discourses

Links & shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/yoni-massage-yogita Yoni Massage changed my life. And thousands of other women’s lifes too. Receiving it is a blessing. A mystical unleashing tool. A practice that is sacred. A practice from soul to soul. From lover to lover. True connection. (Yoni, pronounced Yo-nee is the pussy of a women) I invited the lovely Yogita, into my show. She is a yoga teacher, a women’s group leader and a professional Yoni masseuse. She massaged more than 300 Yonis. She gained amazing knowledge on helping women to let go of shame & sexual traumas with this empowering practice. In this episode, we get into detail about: • What Yoni Massage truly means? • How it exactly works? • What exactly happens during a Yoni Massage? • How to overcome the fear of actually getting one? • How to prepare yourself and your partner for it? • What’s important to know for the giver? • What’s important to know for the receiver?

Links & Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/sexual-liberation Sexual Liberation isn’t just some random word that’s been shouted out on Woodstock or scribbled on a poster by some high and nude hippies. It’s one of those timeless power words, that gives me goosebumps by just thinking about it. Since human kind exists to the day we leave our last footprint on this earth will sexual liberation be a part of our journey. It’s that desire, that lies deeply within us. A desire for freedom of what we are -sexual beings! Dive together with me and my juicy guest Ev’Yan Whitney into this topic of finally setting your sexual being free. Once and for All. Ev’Yan is a sex doula. She created a digital sanctuary for the sexually free, or those who want to be.

Links & Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/claim-your-self-esteem-back Are you making yourself feel small, because you don’t want to shine too much? Or you don’t want to be too intense? Or maybe you think you are not worth standing out in the crowd. Working on our self-esteem is key to feeling fulfilled and living at our full potential. As children we are naturally gifted with self-esteem. It seems that this sparkly curiosity to explore the world, to build something out of our own creativity, to express ourselves the way we like to, doesn’t come as easily as we get older. Investing time in our personal development helps us look at our boundaries and break through our inner victim, to live the child within us again. In this podcast I invited the gorgeous Layla El Khadri to join me in a discourse on how to claim your self-esteem back. Layla used to work as a model in the advertising & film industry and knows a lot about the superficiality of self-esteem that exists in that scene. She turned her back on i

Links & Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/cock-love Oh my, I am excited to share this one with you! Me and Selina from TurnON Munich are being brave and radically honest in this podcast: We are cock lovers! And we want you to hear it all. Yes, it can be scary to shout it out loud. But hey, if it’s true, it’s true. And there is nothing to be ashamed about. This podcast is about intimate truth - and about how to overcome penis anxiety and shame to freely express the yummy fascination for dicks. In this episode, we get into detail about: • Our personal stories on cock anxiety. • The best way of overcoming cock intimidation. • Why honest cock love is so damn powerful. • Why we feel so fascinated by a dick. • How to celebrate your lover's cock.

Links & shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/jealousy-enlightened Jealous? Come on, don’t be. Either you feel totally disgusted by it and wish you could just jump out of your own skin, or you feel you have a right to feel that way. Either way jealousy is still a nasty emotion. A cocktail of anger, fear, insecurity, envy and some more unknown dark ingredients. Honestly, nothing we are generally proud of. Still it rules the game. And when it comes hard on hard jealousy tends to win. Is there a way out of jealousy? What is its deeper meaning and can we actually learn something from it, or even use it for our own evolution? In this podcast episode I invited Raffaello Manacorda as my guest. He is my personal expert when it comes to open relationships. That’s why I enjoy his wisdom and insight on this topic. So press play and listen, jealous monster :) In this episode, we go into detail about: • Shedding light on jealousy. Where does it come from? • The core of jealousy and why it’s often a cocktail of man

Shownotes & LInks: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/your-libido-is-your-own-oracle Your libido is your own personal truthteller. It tells you exactly how much in tune you are with your self, with your partner, and how excited you are about life in general. It’s your driving, vital life source. Jung and Freud, for instance, enlarged on the term “libido” to mean more than simply your sexual drive, so that it signified “how you reveal and give your gifts to the world”. Today’s topic will be very pragmatic and helpful for everyone who feels dull on a daily basis. Maybe you know the feeling: you wake up, and even though you’ve had your 8 hours sleep, still you are out of juice. No motivation to get up, no energy to make a decent breakfast. There is something missing. You might not be aware of it, as this seems to be your normal status quo. Listen to this podcast and find out what you can learn from your most private truth-teller. In this episode, I go into detail about what you can learn from your libido: • when

Shownotes & Links: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/purpose-baby When I was a young girl I wanted to become a tightrope artist. If there wasn’t a purpose in life, life would suck. Living your purpose, the reason why we are here on this earth, can be challenging though. It requires a lot of courage, energy and especially dedication to a cause you are passionate about to keep it alive. In this podcast I dive into a topic that has been life changing for me: How to use your sexual energy to live your dreams and make awesomeness happen. I invited Anjali Anda as my guest. She is a psychologist, holistic healer and mystical dance teacher who has just launched her business and has lots to say on this. Enjoy this slight business angle, but it’s still juicy of course! In this episode, we get into detail about: • What are the initial challenges you face when starting to live your purpose? • How to overcome fear and do what you love to do. • How to know what to offer to the world. • How to fuel your sexy drive to get

Links and shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/anal-sex/ What comes into your mind when you think about anal sex? Blissful or disgusted thoughts?! It’s still a huge taboo and in many countries even a moral sin. But: it’s bigger then ever, looking at numbers only. The bliss of anal sex is not about a quick and dirty porn fuck. It is about full deep raw connection, it’s the ultimate surrender diploma for the receiver and creates a very intense polarity between both lovers. I invited Mangala Tantrika into my show, who is offering workshops dedicated to anal sex. So excited to share this episode with you, as I believe we’ve done a pretty good job of making everyone comfortable with this topic. In this episode, we get into detail about: • How to overcome fear to make anal sex the new bliss tool for you? • Hygiene and risks? • What anal sex means from a Tantric perspective? • How does an Anal Orgasm feel? • Healing aspects of Anal Sex? • What are the most important steps to follow to have blissful anal sex?

Links and shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/sexy-revolution/ What the heck is the Sexy Revolution? Is this the new nude women 60ies neowave with incense and mantras? Babe, we are in 2014! In this podcast episode I am hosting the wonderful Layla Martin, a woman who has dedicated her life and passion to this new sexy revolution. She has the talent to transmit ancient Tantric and Taoistic knowledge in a contemporary and approachable way. She is sassy and deep. She has this spark that inspires other women to dive deeper, take the leap and be courageous enough to explore. I am excited about sharing this episode with you. Enjoy! In this episode, we go into detail about: • Layla and her path from frigidity to ecstasy. • What the sexy Revolution is. • Self-love and why it’s no hocus-pocus. • Layla’s online course “Orgasmic Bliss”. • What’s needed to start the sexy Revolution in our own lives. • Some tips on filling yourself up with sexiness. • Outlook.

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/go-with-the-flow Have you ever thought about using your menstruation as a guideline to live up to your full potential? Women have approximately 450 menstrual cycles in their lifetime. Unfortunately, they often view their cycles as a burden, and in some cultures, menstruation is sometimes regarded as being some kind of a curse. But can we turn this around? Let’s start using our most obvious clock, “the menstrual cycle”, as a calendar that tells us exactly when we are naturally good at doing something.

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/dancing-eros Just if you are wondering: we are not talking (primarily) about striptease here. This show is about a conscious sexuality dance practice called Dancing Eros. The wonderful creatress Vanessa Florence gives us a deep insight into the 4 archetypes, that play a big role in the Dancing Eros practice. With sassy fun and laughter we dive into the world of the maiden, the wild women, the priestess and the slut. Yep, sluts are allowed too! In this episode, we go into detail about: - How About Vanessa’s story and manifestation of the Dancing Eros. - What’s its magic ingredient? - Why being around women and dancing together is so healing. - What are the 4 archetypes about and why can all women learn from them? - Why society doesn’t help us to express our inner women. - Some yummy down to earth tips that help to connect with those archetypes

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/no-time-for-sex You are stressed? Working full-time and coming home late? Is your sex life suffering because there is almost no energy left for regular passionate conscious sex (Sundays only doesn’t count!)? Then listen to this podcast and get inspired by some down to earth tips. In this episode, we get into detail about: – How to integrate sex into our daily life? – Why it’s all about our priorities? – Some down-to-earth tips on making room for sex regularly

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/tantric-relationships Have you ever wondered how to maintain the magic in a long term relationship? Tantra has a lot of useful and down-to-earth tricks that can help us to connect consciously with someone not only physically and mentally, but also energy-wise. In this podcast episode I discover, together with Hajnalka Wray, a Yoga and Tantra teacher from South Africa, how to live a relationship full of ecstasy instead of stagnation. And it’s all about the dance between Shiva and Shakti… (Please note: It’s getting juicy and esoteric already.) In this episode, we go into detail about – Hajnalka’s experience after introducing Tantra into her 10 year old relationship – What the main difference is between a normal relationship and a Tantric one – Shiva and Shakti – How to fight in a Tantric way – Some hands-on solutions on how to solve arguments – What Transfiguration is – A useful and handy trick for boosting your relationship towards yourself and others

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/sex-without-orgasm/ Welcome to this wonderful podcast episode, where I'll be talking to you about a topic that might be familiar to everyone of you. But it’s not much talked about, rather the opposite, everyone wants to know how to have sex with orgasm. And of course I am not teaching you today how to have sex without orgasm, that would be too easy. I’d rather like to open a discourse on the reasons why we have sex that doesn’t automatically come with an ecstatic bliss. In this episode, we get into detail about: • Why sex without orgasm is no disease. • The beautiful practice of sex without a goal • The reasons why we are having sex without orgasm • Final Takeaway

Shownotes and links: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/ep8-jade-egg Today, we’ll talk about a true powertool for pussy mastery (because we all want to strengthen our power house, don’t we?!) – so let’s have a look at the Jade egg. It has changed other lives. It changed my life. Honestly! And I believe all women should have access to this knowledge. A practice that comes from ancient China, that was for a long time hidden from normal folks like us and only meant for royal families, queens and conqueresses. Today, on this show I have with me Sofia Sundari, blogger on mysticalfemininity.com and Tantra teacher. She teaches women around the world how to practice with the Jade Egg. That’s why I asked her to join me in this discourse because she is a true expert in this field, and is sure to have a story or two and some practical tips to give us. In this episode, we get into detail about: • Both her and my experience with the Jade egg. • What is Jade egg practice good for? • What healing powers are stored

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/ep7-sexual-feng-shui Now let’s get right to the topic of my new podcast episode today- Sexual Feng Shui. You might already guess where this is going. But I am pretty sure you haven’t considered some things I am going to share with you. Feng Shui an ancient Chinese metaphysic philosophy to harmonize everyone with the surrounding environment. Its guidelines take into account compass, directions, colors, natural elements like wood, minerals, fire, water, and earth. But what’s most interesting for us here is the Feng Shui in our bed room. If there is hardly anything happening in your marriage or partnership sexually, you might consider to give your bed room an energetic cleansing. At least that’s what the Feng Shui experts claim. Lillian Too, who has written 16 books on Feng Shui says, 'The structures around you also emanate energy and if these structures are placed in a harmonious fashion based on feng shui guidelines, you can attract good energy, and therefore you can

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/ep6-new-rules-of-sex Lauren Brim is one of those women who manifest their passions and change the world by their actions. She is not just a sex coach - she is a spiritual coach, drawing her knowledge from her dance career, her background in the healing arts, and various other fields. She just birthed her new book “The New Rules of Sex” (Note: she is a midwife, too). Outlining a new picture of sex in the 21th century. The book “is an examination of the Western cultural beliefs that shape how we judge ourselves and others in regards to sexual behavior”. This book is definitely on my reading list! In this podcast Lauren and I have a look at exactly this aspect - why we try to fit into a model of sex which we are taught instead of what is true for us. In this episode, we go into detail about: • Lauren’s life and how she arrived at the point she is right now • Why society has such a big impact on our sex life • Why we try to fit into a model of sex which might not be t

Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/ep5-open-relationships In my 5th podcast episode I dive into a highly controversial topic with Raffaello Manacorda of Fragments of Evolution: Open Relationships. Obviously there is a paradigm shift happening in relationships. It’s quite interesting to note that in the US alone, 44% of the population are no longer resonating with the classic model of dating, marrying, getting kids, having sex within the context of a monogamous relationship. Raffaello has been living for over 10 years in quite an open-minded community in Spain, where open relationships are “normal”. He is intrigued by the topic and has been interviewing people who are living in alternative relationship models (including me). His plan is to offer an Open Relationship Workshop in Thailand (and maybe also around the world), for people who are interested in making the seemingly impossible possible. A much needed workshop, I believe. In this episode, we go into detail about: • Raffaello’s personal experienc

Shownotes and links: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/ep4-conscious-masturbation In this podcast I am talking about a very private topic: masturbation. But not the usual, quick-finishing-off-masturbation, I am talking here about conscious masturbation. This is something I found out about during my years of studying Tantra and Tao. When I started becoming more and more aware of my sexuality, I became aware of the power of self-pleasuring. It’s the nourishing magic of self-love which is very healing to our body and soul. Attention: This is for everyone who masturbates and for everyone who doesn’t, because there is lots we can learn from ourselves and understand, to discover what we truly desire. (Spoiler: No goal involved!) In this episode, I go into detail about: • What’s the difference between normal masturbation and conscious masturbation? • What has Karezza to do with conscious masturbation? • What can conscious masturbation look like? • What can you do to benefit from your masturbation practice? • Some extr

Honestly, this guy is a unique character. Eyal Matsliah – living his dream and watching the boats and seagulls on the Costa Brava from his apartment while we get into some juicy talking for my new podcast episode. Eyal turned away from the corporate world to embrace meditation retreats and intense tantric yoga practice, back to the world. His unstoppable mission, to empower the world with tantric sex, is undeniable genius! In this show we discuss some real fundamentals of why sex is the power tool. Attention: We talk about chakras and energies here.