Synopsis
Questionable advice from a fellow work in progress. Hosted by Meghan Rienks.
Episodes
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FF: Head Spa and Painting the Walls
13/06/2025 Duration: 48minWhile Melisa gets pampered with a luxurious headspa treatment, Meghan is hard at work... painting her wall. They talk about the informative, but terrifying Citizen. Then, they correct the viral grandma surrogate story, The conversation turns to the BET Awards, where Meghan and Melisa break down Doechii's powerful speech. And, because she's a true friend, Meghan makes sure to fill Melisa in on all the essential drama, hookups, and betrayals happening on the latest season of Love Island. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks h
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DBM: Jumping Back In The Sack
12/06/2025 Duration: 56minThis week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Finding a new roommate Frustrations about finding a job Having sex again DBT: Making mistakes at work Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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A SYNT (Regifted PR) That's Also a FF
10/06/2025 Duration: 45minMelisa is on the Mend and Meghan's Glasses Broke. They then get into the results from But Am I Wrong: Regifted PR. And end it with some disturbing baby news. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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BAIW: My Friend's Boyfriend is on House Arrest
09/06/2025 Duration: 01h13minBut Am I Wrong: Melisa: We need more at-home health tests Meghan: More people should go on cruises But Are You Wrong: Not taking their child on Christmas vacation Getting a friend away from a controlling boyfriend But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Anthony Emmanuel Labrador Sierra Meghan: Elmer's Glue Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone
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DBM CLASSIC: Numb Mouth
05/06/2025 Duration: 01h17minOriginal Air Date: July 8, 2019 This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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BAIW CLASSIC: Didn't Tell Boss Our Co-Worker Was Pregnant
03/06/2025 Duration: 01h18minOriginal Air Date: September 8, 2022 For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Behind every trend is a PR company Meghan: Faking mental illness is a mental illness In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Not disclosing personal information about a co-worker Boyfriend wanting to see his friend and not you And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate Melisa nominates Mary Znidarsic-Nicosia, Nicholas Nicosia and their racist Juneteenth party Meghan nominates Lil Miquela, the AI Influencer *Note - We recorded this before Melisa's honorable mention had even worse allegations come out about him. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less)
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BAIW CLASSIC: He Said My Dead Cat Was Not Cute
02/06/2025 Duration: 01h34minOriginal Air Date: September 1, 2022 For But Am I Wrong Meghan: People thinking negatively on others that don't read Melisa: Sending emails to people who want to collaborate but don't research our shows In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Boyfriend who doesn't care about your dead pet Changing your mind about having kids And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate Meghan nominates Governor who vetoed supervised injection sites Melisa nominates alleged writer Lena Wilson who tried to feud with Amandla Stenberg Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form
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DBM: Meet The Parents
29/05/2025 Duration: 01h07minThis week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Plane anxiety Making mistakes at work Rekindling a friendship Doubts about a new relationship Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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SYNT: Unethical Patient Posting
27/05/2025 Duration: 50minMeghan and Melisa share the results of But Am I Wrong: Unethical Patient Posting. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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BAIW: Regifted PR
26/05/2025 Duration: 01h09minBut Am I Wrong: Meghan - Do not let a man embarrass you Melisa - Implement International Deadbeat Parent Shaming Day But Are You Wrong: Receiving leftovers as a gift Rant on dressing up But Are They Wrong: Meghan - Guy Edward Barkus Melisa - xAI, Mayor Paul Young, Mayor Lee Harris Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondm
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FF: Too Hot for But Am I Wrong
23/05/2025 Duration: 01h01minThis week, Meghan shares a sad recap of her chaotic morning. Melisa serves up a "non-but-am-I-wrong" hot take on graduations. She also recounts sitting through a tornado watch with her parents. Later, Meghan asks Melisa to recount a hilarious story abuot her dad. Plus, Meghan's found a new movie to replace "Game Night" and finally started watching Melisa's recommendation: Poker Face. Finally, Melisa questions Meghan's love for Michael B. Jordan. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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DBM: My Boyfriend is Hitting on my Friend?
22/05/2025 Duration: 57minThis week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Selling vinyl records Having more pleasurable sex Quitting drinking Friend thinks my boyfriend is lying Don't Blame Them: Unsure what to do with life Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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SYNT: Locking Down Your Situationship
20/05/2025 Duration: 47minMeghan and Melisa share the results from Don't Blame Me: Locking Down Your Situationship Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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BAIW: Unethical Patient Posting
19/05/2025 Duration: 01h01minBut Am I Wrong: Melisa: Proposes a new agency to take down the monsters in our society Meghan: Playing on insecurities is a terrible way to promote your business But Are You Wrong: Their surgery being moved for cancer patients Coworkers posting patients But Are They Wrong: Melisa: John Reilly Meghan: Sophia Culpo Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.
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FF: She's A Runner She's A Track Star
16/05/2025 Duration: 56minMelisa's reporting live from Arkansas, still dreaming about a mouthwatering burger from Angus Jacks. Meanwhile, Meghan's battling a painful UTI. But fear not, Melisa comes prepared with essential tips on how to stay hydrated and not get a UTI. Meghan shares info on random articles written about Romy Mars and Romy’s pop career. Then they discuss the viral "100 Brits vs 100 Americans" TikTok debate, which raises the question: Why are Brits so obsessed with us? And Meghan makes another passionate plea for everyone to support the Grosse Point Garden Society. Melisa admits her busy schedule has put her behind on her beloved Soaps, but she’s got a must-watch recommendation: "Poker Face"! Meghan also chimes in with a defense of Madeline Brewer's performance in "You" and throws it back to the film "The Deleted” Finally, Melisa spills the details on her very first track meet experience and shares a surprisingly pleasant flight story with Allegiant Air (though she's still begging them not to leav
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DBM: White Lies
15/05/2025 Duration: 56minContent Warning: #2 - Child Loss and #3 - Abortion This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Lying partner Honoring your friend's child Support during an abortion Don't Blame Them - Finish work quickly Update - Regretting not moving for college Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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SYNT: My Sister is Cheating on Our Cousin + Met Gala Review
13/05/2025 Duration: 01h02minMeghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Sister is Cheating on Our Cousin. Then they do their annual Met Gala Review. Vogue Best Dressed Reddit Best Dressed Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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BAIW: Locking Down Your Situationship
12/05/2025 Duration: 01h20minBut Am I Wrong: Meghan: Getting Your Sibling's Name Tattooed on Your Body Melisa: AI Ruining Business But Are You Wrong: Big Egg rant Asking someone your dating to be exclusive But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Syd Towle Snark Members Melisa: Liberty Hotel Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adc
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FF: WE SAW Cowboy Carter and The Rodeo Chitlin' Circuit
09/05/2025 Duration: 01h31sGiddy Up, Giddy Up! Hold onto your chaps, BeyHive. Meghan and Melisa just left the "Cowboy Carter and the Rodeo Chitlin' Circuit Tour," and these TYRANTS share what they witnessed. Join them as they raise II HANDS II HEAVEN and unpack every breathtaking moment from Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter's latest global spectacle. From the groundbreaking fusion of country, Black history, and pure artistry to the overwhelming emotions it stirred, prepare for what might just be Beyoncé's most impactful tour ever. But the Knowles’ family celebrations don't stop there. M&M briefly touch on Ms. Tina Knowles' recently released memoir, "Matriarch." And finally, afer talking about Beyoncé’s RIIVERDANCE, Meghan and Melisa take a trip to the mid-90s and dissect the absolute chokehold Michael Flatley and Riverdance had on white women everywhere. Most of y’all are too young to understand the fever dream that was the “Lord of the Dance.” Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-a
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DBM: Never Had Sex With Your Partner
08/05/2025 Duration: 01h04minThis week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Flip-flopping in a relationship Splitting items with your roommates Talking for 2 years Birthday drama Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices