How To Be A Submissive Wife

 A Submissive wife should remember to pay attention to her husband's needs.   When you are busy with life, children and work it is easy to bypass his needs as he is an adult and can take care of himself but remember as his wife it is your place to be his helper and completer.

 Don't allow cleaning of your home to get out of hand and become a problem.   The easiest way to tackle cleaning is to have a daily, weekly and monthly schedule. Pin your schedule up and follow it each day, if you are having trouble sticking to the plan ask your husband to hold you accountable. 

 Sex is not just something you do to satisfy your husband's needs.   The purpose of sex is to create connection and oneness with each other, so don't take the attitude of lying back and letting him get it over with, instead grab the opportunity to become one with your husband physically and mentally.

 As a wife and mother, you should remember you only do as your husband says. It is your place to parent your children not give in to them they do as you say and not as they choose. Children have to learn we all have to abide by rules.

 Are you allowing others in your marriage bed? There should just be you and your husband in your bed not you, your husband and the world.   Don't turn on the TV in the bedroom and leave your mobile phone out of the bedroom, focus on your husband and not other people.

  Every marriage has its ups and downs. Your husband is not perfect he is human and he will make mistakes/ When he gets things wrong don’t try to take control instead support your husband and stand by him.

 Once you are married everything changes, you and your husband become one and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought.   The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body. 

 Remember that just because your friend's husbands have different strengths to your husband it does not mean they are better than him.   Different does not mean better. Embrace your husband's strengths and support him is his weaknesses. 

 A Submissive Wife should take great pride in looking after the home. A good idea for you to use is to have a cleaning rota for each day of the week, so you know what job needs completing and when ensuring the home is cleaned from top to bottom each week.

 A Submissive wife should remember that honesty is always the best policy.   Dishonesty will destroy his trust, and without trust, love will be replaced with resentment. 

  If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a woman worthy of his respect. Be humble, be kind, be modest and always be on his side

 A Submissive Wife should remember when her husband says something she does not like that a harsh answer will stir up anger, but a soft, gentle response will discourage his wrath.

When you disagree, don't hold a grudge.  When you hold a grudge and stop speaking to your husband, it tells him that you have no respect for him and his leadership. Holding a grudge will only cause him to pull away and be distant

 As his wife, you should support his hopes and dreams, help him to be the best he can, be by his side during good times and bad times and always offer your support and encouragement.

 Don't let a busy life be the enemy of your sex life, Being a Wife, Mother & worker can all stop you thinking about being a sexy woman for your husband. Take time to think about being intimate with your husband, so you are already in the mood for an intimate evening

 If possible try to go to bed and get up at the same time as your husband. You don't want to miss out on those intimate moments at the start and end of each day if you can help it. 

 Acknowledge your husband's presence when he comes home, don't just say hello and continue what you are doing instead go to him and give him a proper welcome. Let him know you are pleased to see him home.

 It is important to remember when on social media not to go looking up old flames and reconnecting with them they are from the past and should stay in the past; you don't want to rekindle the old feelings. 

 Many busy couples find it hard to find time to stop and talk to each other during the day but when you do talk to your husband show him respect by looking him in the eye when he is talking and not at what you are doing.

Do you tend to talk for your husband when you are in the company of others? Do you talk over your husband, so your opinion is heard and not his?\ Do you not let him finish speaking because he is taking to long? Stop being so disrespectful and remember that love is not rude, or impatient and remember LOVE IS KIND & THinks No EVIL