School Of Awesome Sauce With Greg Denning

Is your teen struggling with anxiety, depression, or just staying motivated to get out of bed in the morning?Do you sometimes feel helpless watching them drift, while wishing you could guide them without controlling them?In this heartfelt conversation, we dive deep into the real reasons teens check out emotionally and mentally—and what you can do as a parent to help.From the science-backed truth that positive habits are the foundation of mental health to powerful strategies like state changes, pattern interrupts, and building strong parent-child connections, we share the tools that actually work.Whether your child is just entering the teen years or already struggling with disconnection, you’ll walk away with clarity, hope, and practical steps to help your son or daughter thrive.Key Takeaways:✅ Why sleeping in and lack of motivation are symptoms of deeper issues✅ How to use positive habits to fight anxiety, depression, and hopelessness✅ Why prevention is easier than repair (and what to do if you’re already in

Do you ever feel like you have a "million dreams and not enough time" to chase them all? As a parent, the challenge is even greater—you want financial freedom, family adventures, strong relationships, better health, and so much more. But where do you even start?In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning share their 5-step process for choosing which dreams matter most right now. They reveal how to prioritize goals without sacrificing what matters most—your marriage, your kids, your health, and your peace of mind.Key Takeaways:✅ Write down and prioritize ALL your dreams✅ Balance ambition with family life✅ Follow intuition and interests as guideposts✅ Use urgency, energy, and alignment filters to choose what to pursue✅ Avoid the trap of sacrificing relationships for successWhether you dream of traveling the world, building a business, or creating a family legacy, this episode will help you gain clarity, simplify your focus, and start moving forward today.If you’ve ever asked, “Where do I start?”—this is

Are your teen’s habits building the future they want — or holding them back?Most parents focus on grades, test scores, and academic achievements, but the truth is… habits determine everything. From sleep to self-talk, from what we eat to how we think, our daily habits are literally the building blocks of our lives.In this episode, we share the foundational habits every teen should develop to create a life of happiness, success, and purpose — and why these skills are rarely taught in schools. You’ll learn practical ways to help your teen replace destructive habits with empowering ones, create positive associations, and build a lifelong foundation for health, confidence, and achievement.Whether you’re parenting a teenager now or preparing for the years ahead, this conversation will help you guide them toward a future they’ll thank you for.

Are you tired of repeating yourself over and over, just to get your teen to do the simplest chores?Does it feel like every request turns into a negotiation—or worse, an argument?In this episode, we’re revealing exactly how to get your teen to take responsibility for chores—without nagging, yelling, or bribing. As parents of seven, we’ve tested countless strategies, and this one works because it’s built on privilege-based accountability—not power struggles.We’ll show you how to replace daily battles with a clear system that motivates teens to follow through. You’ll learn how to connect privileges (like screen time, outings, or car use) to personal responsibility, so your teen begins to self-manage—willingly.We’ll also share why maintaining a strong relationship is essential to cooperation, and how the right approach can actually bring you closer to your teen while also building lifelong habits of responsibility.If you’re ready to turn chore time from chaos to calm, this conversation will show you exactly how.

Are you tired of parenting by force, only to watch results fade?Did you know that long-term influence usually starts with emotional deposits—not immediate obedience?In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning sit down with friends to unpack the parenting strategy that transformed their home: choosing strategic empathy, trust-building, and persuasion over force and control.We dive into:Why influence matters more than obedienceHow to make daily emotional deposits that pay off laterTactful, creative strategies instead of reactionary disciplineThe subtle power of modeling—not manipulatingWhether you're in the parenting trenches or preparing for the teenage years ahead, this episode gives you tools to do the hard work once, so trust — not threats — becomes your default.Tune in if you’re ready to raise thinking, self-directed children who WANT to do what's right—without prompting or power struggles.Key Takeaways✅ Influence beats force in the long run✅ Emotional deposits build trust and cooperation✅ Persuasion

Are you frustrated watching your teen scroll endlessly… while the real world slips away?In this episode, we tackle the tension parents feel when teen phones take over life, relationships, and mental health and how to reclaim connection when technology feels endless.We unpack the essential shift from limiting screen time to cultivating habits that outlast it. We'll show you how to:Instill the mindset: "a phone is a tool—not a toy"Help your teen build daily rhythms that out compete the scrollCreate a family vision so compelling screens become secondaryModel self-discipline and transparency as the path to influenceWe also explain how this connects to our online class, Habits for a Successful Life, designed to teach teens how to manage attention, focus, and real‑world leadership—not just entertainment.If you’re ready to move from discipline battles to habit building, tune in now to learn how to build a household culture where vision wins over distraction—and phones serve purpose, not rule life.Key T

Are you pushing your kids to get a job because you think it will teach them hard work and responsibility?You might want to rethink that strategy.In this game-changing episode, we challenge the traditional mindset that getting a job is the best way to teach kids responsibility or financial sense. Instead, we lay out a powerful case for raising children to think like entrepreneurs, not employees.We share how we've raised our own 7 children to develop grit, work ethic, and real-world resilience—without relying on traditional jobs or minimum wage work. From modeling hard things like summiting Mount Kilimanjaro to investing in books, mentorship, and business attempts, our goal is to teach ownership, not just obedience.We also address how to create an extraordinary family life by building a home culture of learning, experimentation, and high standards for personal growth. Plus, we dive into why financial education and risk-taking matter more than ever—and how using debt wisely is a skill, not a sin.If you'r

Are you noticing your teen struggling to move forward—still living at home, lacking motivation, or avoiding responsibility?Did you know failure to launch syndrome is becoming a silent epidemic, with many young adults unable to transition into independent, thriving adults?In this episode, Rachel and Greg unpack what failure to launch looks like, why it's happening—and most importantly—what you can do now to guide your child toward adult independence. Drawing on years of experience working with youth and young adults, they explore the common warning signs (low persistence, entitlement, lack of life skills) and reveal the actionable strategies that prevent the downward spiral before it’s too late.This candid conversation is filled with practical advice: how to instill responsibility, help your child set meaningful goals, face challenges, and develop emotional maturity. Whether you're parenting a toddler or a teen, this episode equips you with tools to help your children not just survive—but truly launch

Are you frustrated by constant discipline battles with your kids? Do you feel like no matter what you try, the misbehavior just won’t stop?What if the key to ending discipline problems isn’t about punishments or timeouts — but about becoming a truly effective parent and mentor?In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning reveal why most parenting struggles come down to what you are doing — or not doing — as a parent. They share why discipline problems aren’t really about your kids but about parenting skills and trust-building.You’ll learn the powerful mindset shift that parenting is a specific skill you can learn and improve — just like tennis — and how building a foundation of trust prevents most discipline issues before they start.Discover how to stop draining your child’s emotional bank account and start making deposits of love, attention, and understanding. This episode is packed with real-life insights and encouragement for parents ready to enjoy parenting and raise well-adjusted, confident kids.If you’re re

Does your teen complain that they feel “controlled,” “left out,” or “different” from their friends because of your family’s standards?Are you worried that your rules might push them into rebellion—or cause them to resent you?In this candid conversation, we break down exactly how to hold high standards without creating resentment, rebellion, or emotional distance.We’ll teach you how to stop parenting from the couch, stop obsessing over control, and start using CONVICTION to convince your kids to OWN the highest standards for themselves.When kids feel like they’re missing out — screens, video games, or anything — it usually means we as parents need to create a family culture that is more fun, more adventurous, and more rewarding than the alternatives.In this episode, we share practical ways to help your kids understand the why behind your high standards — and how to make your life—and your family’s life—so attractive and meaningful that your kids want to choose those standards for themselves.Key Takeaways:✅ How

Are you constantly battling with your child over decisions—like what they wear, eat, or how they spend their time? Do you worry they’ll make bad choices if you give them too much freedom?In this candid conversation, we break down the art and science of teaching kids how to make their own decisions—while still keeping them safe, supported, and connected to you.The goal of parenting isn’t to control your child’s every move; it’s to teach them how to think, how to choose, and how to handle the natural consequences of their decisions. But how do you do that without letting them fall off the proverbial cliff?In this episode, we reveal exactly how to balance freedom with boundaries, so your child can develop real-life decision-making skills without damaging your relationship in the process.Whether you’re raising toddlers or teens, this episode will help you shift from a control-based parenting model to one focused on agency, connection, and life skills development.Key Takeaways:✅ Why letting kids make mistakes earl

Are you worried you’re “not spiritual enough” to lead your kids in faith? Do you wonder if you’ve messed up too much to guide them in hearing God’s voice?The truth is—you don’t have to be perfect to raise spiritually confident kids.In this interview episode with Jen from Java With Jen, we have a candid conversation about hearing God's voice as a family—and why perfection is NOT a requirement for spiritual growth. We share how to create a home where prayer, repentance, and connection with God become normal everyday practices—even when you're still working through your own struggles.We also talk about why the attack on families is so fierce right now—and why raising spiritually resilient kids is the key to protecting them from today’s cultural confusion and overwhelm.You’ll discover how small habits like honesty, humility, and quick repentance clear the “airways” so you (and your kids) can hear God’s guidance more clearly.If you're ready to build a family culture of faith without the pressure of per

Are you living life on your terms—or just checking the boxes of what you're “supposed” to do?Do you feel like you’re sacrificing your family life balance just to keep up with society’s expectations?In this episode, we unpack the bold decisions we made to opt out of the “normal” path—traditional jobs, mainstream schooling, and cultural pressure—and how those sacrifices led to a stronger, happier, and more united family.We’re not promoting selfishness. We’re advocating for intentionality. For living deliberately. For creating a family culture that nurtures emotional health, purpose, and joy.We talk about the hard choices, the personal growth it required, the sacrifices we made—and why we’d make them all over again.Whether you’re a parent wondering if there’s another way… or already on the path of designing your own extraordinary life… this episode will inspire you to ask better questions and bravely pursue the life you really want.

Is your husband avoiding intimacy... and you don't know why?In this raw and unfiltered conversation, we unpack four brutally honest reasons your husband may not want sex — and what it means for your marriage.Many wives silently wonder: "Why doesn't my husband want me anymore?" Whether you're emotionally connected (or not) but sexually distant, it can feel devastating. But the truth is, low libido in men is rarely just about sex. Often, it’s a symptom of deeper issues—and understanding those issues is the first step toward rebuilding connection and passion.We discuss:How processed food is reducing libido in men and womenHow porn addiction secretly destroys sexual desire in marriage and creates SAD (sexual arousal dysfunction)Why adultery (emotional or physical) leads to disconnectionThe painful truth about emotional rejection and naggingWhat you may unknowingly be doing to repel your husband sexuallyWhy physical, emotional, and attitudinal attractiveness matter in marriageHow to reignite

Do you feel like you're losing connection with your teen—or worse, already have? You're not alone… but it doesn't have to be that way.In this powerful and honest episode, we share 6 strategic parenting techniques that have helped us raise mature, respectful, and emotionally healthy teens—without control, punishment, or endless conflict.If you're frustrated by moodiness, defiance, secretive behavior, or a lack of trust in your relationship with your teen, it might be because you're parenting on autopilot… using strategies that just don’t work anymore.We unpack the REAL reasons why teens rebel, resist, or retreat—and why many parenting tactics like strict rules, forced obedience, or excessive control backfire (sometimes in heartbreaking ways).You'll learn how to:Recognize the warning signs of disconnection before they become rebellionBuild emotional capital and trust with your teen—without being permissiveEncourage better choices without controlling their every moveAvoid the #1 parenting myth that leads to rese

Are you wondering why your 18-year-old still acts like a teenager? Science confirms it—they’re not fully adults yet. So how do you parent emerging adults ages 18–25 with wisdom, influence, and connection?In this powerful episode, we share the essential mindset and parenting strategies you need to guide your teens and young adults through their most formative and vulnerable years.We dive into why your role as a parent doesn’t stop at 18—and why your influence matters even more during this critical “emerging adulthood” phase.Learn why respect must be earned (not assumed), why leveling up as a parent is non-negotiable, and how to stay connected while still holding high standards. We also unpack the difference between rigid rules and principled living, why exposure to the real world is crucial (not dangerous), and how to foster real-world readiness through honest conversation and example—not fear, shame, or control.Whether your child is making choices that don't align with your values, or just pulling away, t

Do you ever wonder why you're not happy, even when life looks good on the outside?You’re raising kids, checking off your to-do list, maybe even living in your dream house—but something still feels… off. Like you’re just going through the motions. If that’s you, this episode is exactly what you need.In this honest and actionable conversation, we share 7 specific strategies we use as a couple and family to intentionally practice happiness—no matter how hard, stressful, or chaotic life gets.These aren’t fluffy mindset hacks. These are real-life tools we use daily to overcome burnout, shift our emotional state, and reconnect with purpose.We cover how to:Use mundane tasks like washing dishes as emotional recoveryConnect daily habits to your long-term goals for deeper meaningRecognize signs you're emotionally depleted—and what to do nextBuild “micro-doses” of joy and excitement into your calendarUse movement and analog tasks to boost your mood naturallyAlign your marriage so you're not living as "roommates"Create a

Are you constantly feeling overwhelmed, irritated, or like you’re just going through the motions of family life?Do you wish you could feel more joy, peace, and connection—but don’t know how to actually get there in the midst of chores, tantrums, and to-do lists?In this episode, we share how to actually enjoy family life—even when it’s hard, boring, or chaotic. We explore how being present—truly present—can radically transform your parenting and your emotional state. You’ll learn how to stop “trying” to be calm or patient... and instead become calm and patient from the inside out—so you can raise happier, more resilient kids who feel safe, seen, and emotionally supported every day.We unpack how your emotional baseline affects your family culture, why pretending to be peaceful isn’t enough, and how small daily habits like mindfulness, gratitude, and intentional action can raise your emotional thermostat.You’ll also discover how to remove hidden emotional blocks and process negative feelings—so you can genuinely

Are the men in your home grumpy, disconnected, or hard to reach emotionally? Do you ever feel like there's a quiet tension simmering under the surface of your marriage?In this raw and honest conversation, we dive into how unmet sexual needs (and/or porn usage) —and a lack of emotional and physical connection—are contributing to frustration, moodiness, and even disconnection in marriage and family life.You might be surprised to learn that it’s not just men who are feeling sexually frustrated—many women are too. And when this deep need for connection is unmet, it seeps into every area of life: parenting, partnership, communication, and even personal confidence.We explore how porn, masturbation, stress, and lack of emotional intimacy are silently sabotaging marriages—and how to rebuild connection, fulfillment, and joy through intentional effort and honest conversations.This episode is for couples who want more than just “getting by.” It’s for those who want thriving, deeply connected, emotionally intelligent mar

Are you tired of feeling stuck in the same frustrating patterns of family conflict?Do small arguments keep escalating, leaving you drained, defeated, or disconnected?In this empowering episode, we break down exactly how to step out of the Family Drama Triangle—the toxic cycle of victim, villain, and rescuer that silently sabotages your parenting, partnership, and peace.We share the 3 surprisingly simple steps that will help you break free from reactive patterns and create more calm, connection, and cooperation in your home—starting today.