Mind Revolution

Last week we talked about rising above the need to be right. The episode was aimed at the more talkative, assertive ones among us. Today we’re talking about the opposite -- when to speak up for yourself. This episode is primarily for the quiet ones who tend to hold their cards close to their chest. As children, many of us were expected to “not talk back” to authority figures. That strategy has its place when you’re a child, but once you’re an adult, it’s important -- for others and for yourself -- that you make your thoughts and feelings known...when it comes to certain topics, and at appropriate times.  Here’s why. Speaking up for yourself… Gives others a chance to understand you.  Gives others a chance to explain themselves and clear up any confusion. Gives others a chance to meet your expectations. Removes any doubt about whether or not you approve of the other party’s beliefs or behavior I’m not implying that you should expect something in exchange for your honesty. Don’t expect the other party to chang