The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

Each month the members on our premium site get to submit questions and we answer those in an audio file that is posted on that site.  Click Here The following are questions that were submitted:    Q&A What do you do when you don’t feel like you want to emotionally connect and be vulnerable with you spouse?   From my husband- As I’m working on my sex addiction recovery, I am also experiencing outbursts of anger. Can the anger issues be resolved by the work in my addiction recovery?   What are all your thoughts on the saying "sobriety is not recovery"?    I am in a 3 year relationship and I don't feel physically attracted to my partner, I've used porn for 6-8 years and have been sober for 2 years with 1 relapse early on in the 2 years, I find it tempting to look at attractive women on the street. I find it hard to give genuine compliments about my partner and their physical appearance. Every time I try to, I ask myself internally and try to confirm about whether what I whether I find something physical/othe