Straight Talk For A Curvy World

*This conversation may include opinions of family law but it should not be considered legal advice.    Special Passages      “Happiness comes more from loving than being loved, and often when our affection seems wounded it is only our vanity bleeding. To love, and to be hurt often, and to love again — this is the brave and happy life.” - by J.E. Buckrose    “Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.” - from The Fear of Flying by Erica Jong   Crossing Relationship Borders    Kim Bell has crossed many borders in her life. She is an Australian who is married to an American she met while in the Philippines and who currently lives in Canada. Both of her husbands, previous and current, had children before she married them. She doesn’t have any offspring. This in combination with