Leader Manager Coach Podcast

After agreeing to a major life transition, Rob has been taking some time to reflect on the importance of focus and mindset.Mental and physical preparation are key to any new phase in life, and with this in mind, Rob talks to you this week on the subjects of goals and deadlines; how to set them and how to achieve them. But more importantly, how does time affect the goals we set? Do we achieve more if we have less time?Join the conversation for Rob's unique perspective on these questions, as well as practical advice on how to achieve your goals, and an important lesson in judging others before you know the whole story.KEY TAKEAWAYSDeadlines force you to work harder. They force you to focus more acutely. There are undoubtedly things in your own life that need to be achieved before you can get to where you'd like to be.We often underestimate the things we can do. Tasks we never thought possible can often be accomplished if we have the focus to give them, and push ourselves a little harder.Picking out the key goal

‘Life is beautiful or tragic and there are a myriad of things that we can't control, they happen. What we can control are the ways in which we respond' Rob is looking at key learning and the different ways we respond and move forward in the journey of career, work, life and leadership. He explores what you can control and how the way you respond is key in the way you experience life's journey. If you take on the information in this podcast it can make a significant difference in your life and in the lives of those you lead and inspire as leaders, managers and coaches.   KEY TAKEAWAYS Often the best learning comes from our personal learning experiences. Sometimes it's only when a person is impacted psychologically, neurologically and environmentally that real learning takes place. It's the little things that cross your path a hundred times a day that can be learning experiences if we take the time to reflect and learn.  Developing the learning habit 

‘I had ideas and wanted to make things happen'Rob is in conversation with Darren Galvin CEO of Expert Apps who are at the cutting edge of App technology. Along with his business partner, Danny Webster, Darren has developed a business worth 8 figures in less than 2 years.The story he shares with openness and a creditable vulnerability of a rootless, misunderstood adolescent, through disjointed business adversity to The CEO of Expert Apps is an inspiration and one we are pleased to be able to share in this episode. KEY TAKEAWAYSThe JourneyWhen I was younger I was considered someone, who didn't know how to behave but now I understand I was actually misunderstood.People thought I didn't pay attention but I just wanted to get onto the next adventure.I kept believing I was no good because that was what I was being told.When you don't take exams, you make a determination about your worth to the worldand that can be serious. You do not realise you have placed such a low value on yourself.What really matter

‘We need to embrace the journey and understand that  everyone is on their own journey' Welcome to episode No. 3 in the series of Leo Tolstoy's coaching wisdom where Rob takes wisdom from one of the world's greatest thinkers and writers and applies it to coaching,  managing and leading. If you work in the arena of improvement then this episode is a must-listen. Rob takes the wisdom of Leo Tolstoy and explains how those who lead and coach can use it to support, understand and influence positively the journey of others.   KEY TAKEAWAYS Making sure as leaders, managers and coaches we work where we are most powerful. It's those little aggregated incremental seconds that move us forward in either a positive or negative direction. Live your life in quiet and moderate humility We all have our job to do on the planet and it's about finding out what yours is and how you can help others. Understanding and love Feeling loved gives our players the oppo

‘We can do a lot of good by focusing on what people are good at' In this episode, Rob talks about how as a leader manager coach you can improve your results, achievement and how satisfying life can be through focusing your time in the right areas. Inspired by the work of Ryan Holiday and Bryan Johnson, Rob explores how to do what you are meant to do and understand more about the thought processes and fundamentals that underpin you achieving more.   KEY TAKEAWAYS Look at the people you are helping, leading, managing and how easy it is to focus on what they can't do. We should be showing them the way to get better at what they are good at. There is a quadrant that is uniquely you. If we want to find our genius, that which separates us, we need to make a conscious effort about how we spend our time. If you don't know yourself you may constantly be in the wrong arena. The clock is ticking from the moment we are born, it's all about how we utilise our ti

Sometimes one coach is never enough, so this week Rob talks to ex-Stoke City coach Rich Carter, whose career and experiences have ranged between everything from youth development to elite training.Rich's perspectives and beliefs are rooted in the belief that football is about the game itself; about the people and the pressure. In this fascinating conversation, Rich discusses the differences between football then and now, the importance of establishing your personal values, his proudest achievements, and his hopes for the future.KEY TAKEAWAYSThe facilities of yesteryear were always a big leveller in terms of skill. Technology has brought the game up to date, but it has also taken the focus off the game and the training a little.Among the most influential coaches of Rich's career have been the ones who were hard but fair taskmasters, those who instilled values, and those who had a high attention to detail, all attributes that Rich has imported into his own career.One of Rich's biggest achievements comes from kn

In this episode Rob shares a recent experience that has been truly amazing.He has been involved in football in all its varying forms for over 3 decades and has been blessed with many experiences but the culture, values and passion of this organisation have created a lasting impression.Rob explains how Celtic football club an example to all of us is about creating a culture, respecting your past and looking to the future.   KEY TAKEAWAYSIt's not often you feel so utterly impressed by an organisation but Celtic is truly a club like no other.From the very first interaction over the phone, the whole experience has been absolutely fantastic.During this convention, there has been information from people with hundreds of years of combined experience in the profession.They have been utterly transparent sharing the way they work, their journeys, challenges, what they look for, how they put the detail into sessions  and how they see the game evolving.The key facets of Celtic football club – th

Skill acquisition is vital and the elite, those with the most influence have specific skills that separate them from other players. In this episode, Rob takes a look at the importance of scanning, skill acquisition and mindset in the game. He asks ‘do we concentrate so much on the doing that we fail to teach the vital concepts and skills that enable great decision-making performance under pressure? Rob discusses the underlying research and how leaders and coaches can effectively teach these skills to raise the level for any player.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Scanning There is a skill the top players with the most influence have that separates them, their ability to perceive and scan, to know what's going on around them. This skill is applicable to all sports you must have a perception of what's going on around you to be able to analyse it. Currently it's about teaching players to be masters of the technical skills first. If we believe it takes ho

Rob is exploring ‘The Hero's Journey by Joseph Campbell, sharing his thoughts and reflections on a phenomenal book that has the power to change lives.  If you, like Rob, enjoy reading and finding out what eminent people think and how your own life can be made more profitable through learning from the great people who've gone before then this episode provides a personal and insightful view on the hero's journey that we are all personally involved in, because you are the hero in your own life.   KEY TAKEAWAYS There are numerous stages in any life and The Hero's Journey represents all of us on our life journey from when we are born until when we die. At a macro level it is one journey but within the overall journey are hundreds and thousands of hero's journeys. We are all called to adventure All are called but not all of us hear and not all of us answer. It's the desires within us, that stir us. Dreams and imaginings, powerful and amazing to us persona

Rob is in conversation with former professional footballer and current coach at Port Vale, Anthony Griffith, who's here this week to share the story of his career, and to pass on the wealth of advice he's gathered across the years to anyone with an interest in the game, or the life surrounding it.Anthony's journey is filled with sage wisdom, surprises, and invaluable guidance for players, coaches and family, old or young.KEY TAKEAWAYS As a youth player, Anthony found that being away from home, and finding himself suddenly cast into a foreign environment, mean that he had to sink or swim. Many other young men felt like quitting, but Anthony chose the opposite route, deciding that it was time to step up and find his independence.Youth training in football is not just about teaching young people how to play the game. It's also about preparing them for life, to develop their confidence, their will and their decision making.Anthony always gave his best when he was given the opportunity to improve as a player,

Rob is talking about lessons learnt from circumstances he experienced during his week and sharing the wisdom of the month from the Calendar of Wisdom by Leo Tolstoy.This episode includes lessons, reflections and maxims that can be used in your coaching, managing and leadership along with your own projects for a positive effect.Coaching is always psychological and social, You may want someone to master a physical skill, but it all begins with their mindset, listen in and be inspired. KEY TAKEAWAYSDo what you can, with what you have, do it where you areHow often have you seen something that others haven't?When you have a feeling or vision, just because others can't see it doesn't mean it's not there.If you commit to the path something will change there will be an outcome, nothing is worthwhile without the work.Balancing the age of digitalisationOur lives have gone online saving us a huge amount of time but there is a downside, being online for extended periods of time has issues.Aim to get your social medi

Welcome to this podcast recorded whilst Rob looks out on the city of Dhaka, with its heat, blue skies and plethora of small businesses. He continues as part of the national team of coaches with a week of consolidation and reflection on the ways forward to achieve the aims and goals of the national youth team. The principles of life, success and happiness are universal whatever the arena or niche you are in and Rob shares his latest experiences and reflects on the positive foundations being built.   KEY TAKEAWAYS Building positive relationships is key. Speaking to someone in their native language breaks down barriers, builds rapport and develops positive relationships. You have to recognise, acknowledge and celebrate other people's cultures with them There is a desire in all of us as coaches to work with the players, as the influencer, coaxer, facilitator, communicator and creator working to achieve those incremental steps that move everything forward. We have

‘Everything that is worthwhile and has substance, that is going to bear fruit and is sustainable takes time to build' In this fascinating episode, Rob explores the methodology adopted by Norwich City, who are currently forging change as they nurture a philosophy based on the development of ‘homegrown talent' You have to be brave to embark on a journey that is going to be fraught with challenges and Rob examines the underlying principles in use and how they can be used across the football profession.   KEY TAKEAWAYS An iconoclast is a person who sees the world differently, has a specific view and perspective that differs from others. It is a characteristic of people who are instigators of change, at the cutting edge and significant influencers. Norwich City under the sporting director Stuart Webber made a decision to develop a philosophy based on developing homegrown talent, not on the outcome of individual matches. They have made a decision about what w

Sometimes, the rules and the norms are just meant to be broken so we could learn and improve. Being trapped is the last thing we want. Make drastic changes if need be.In this episode of the Leader Manager Coach Podcast, Rob talks about iconoclastic bravery. In professional sports, some problematic culture and perceptions might be difficult to shatter. But if you stand up and make the move, then other people might see your point and get swayed. There are still things to change in our surroundings. We have to let go of our old ways and gain new perspectives. Discover about how you can enjoy being iconoclastic when you tune in.KEY TAKEAWAYSAn iconoclastic sees the world differently than anybody else. They understand what's better for society and so they bring change.There's too much pressure in playing professional football. Coaches should recognise this as to not get shaken up by this. Everyone must endure through the challenges so that they learn, improve, and win.Norwich City has recently given young pla

‘Opening up and having face to face conversations with those you wouldn't normally speak with can be very powerful'Rob shares the power and impact and value of face to face interaction in an increasingly digital world. If you take on board the content in this episode you will be moving towards being a better professional and individual. It will make you happier and more effective so listen in now to find out more. KEY TAKEAWAYSFocusing and having an ability to attend to the important things in your life will make you an increasingly rare and valued individual because of the work you will be able to produce.If we want to influence someone there needs to be a relationship and if we want to be valued,  influence people and be better at what we do we should be seeking meaningful conversations.Interactions are increasingly digital, and this opposes a meaningful conversation but we as humans are part of a whole and if we don't experience interaction with others on a deep level we miss out.If you mak

‘This is not about one person it's about a team as success always is'This podcast comes to us from Dhaka in Bangladesh where Rob has arrived to begin work as part of a specialist team with the nation's football federation.Rob Shares his initial thoughts on a country with warm and welcoming people and a growing passion for the game of football, listen in and share the journey with him. KEY TAKEAWAYSOn 11 June the national team qualified for the next stage of the world cup, this has lit up the football followers in this inspiring country.I'm here because I have a job to do as part of a team and at the press conference a plethora of journalists, reporters and media were keen to know how we were going to impact on the players moving forward.The coaching staff have already put in place some key fundamentals for the 60 boys who range in age from 14 to 19.It's refreshing to meet young people with respect, a hunger for knowledge, an obvious passion to succeed and a desire to move on I'm sure their journey

Words of Wisdom for Leaders, Managers & Coaches ‘It is not where we are that matters it is the direction of our travel. Life moves on and changes, everything passes and if we aim in the right direction the journey of life will take us where we want to go' This fascinating episode is the first of a 12-part series exploring the Calendar of Wisdom by Leo Tolstoy. We need to lead, manage and coach ourselves because if we can't do it for ourselves we will not be able to do it for others. This podcast provides words of wisdom that can be used to develop change and create a focus on being the best you can be.   KEY TAKEAWAYS Decide very carefully what to read in life - Be aware and carefully select what information you are taking in. Have a faith no matter what it is, believe in something - Have a faith, ideally believe in something that is bigger than you if you want to have peace, be happy and have a successful life. Serve, live a life of servic

In this episode of the Leader Manager Coach Podcast, Rob Ryles talks to James Bolton, the defender for Shrewsbury Town Football team. James shares today some stories about his personal life and his football career. Just like any pro football players, James dedicated his time and energy to improving himself every day. At the age of 24, it's incredible how far he has reached. He says that if not for the people around him (his family, his coaches, etc.), his focus and determination would die down.  Fight for your place, this is just one among the nuggets of wisdom he shares for any young aspirants out there. Discover what got him to where he is now and more when you tune in. KEY TAKEAWAYS James almost gave up with his passion for playing football when he was released from Stoke City academy. Thanks to his support of the people from his surroundings, especially his dad, he continued doing what he loved. Patience is vital. It takes time to be a pro and to be on top. James recalls the

‘Rituals work because they dovetail with human nature, the compound effect, loving the plateau and the power of momentum'Rob shares the inspiration behind the rituals and principles he puts into practice every day.He provides an invaluable insight into the ways in which rituals can be implemented and impact on your success each day. KEY TAKEAWAYSHuman natureRituals sit side by side with the human nature paradox.As human beings, we all have ways of working, desires and fundamental challenges.It's much better to synergise with others and go with the flow in order to achieve what you want.  Compound interestThe compounding effect is essentially how life moves forward. It's all about starting then engaging in the next process and the next, continuing over a period of time creating a compound effect as you move onwards.Rituals allow us to effectively access the compounding effect.Loving the PlateauOnce you set out with a goal and objective to achieve at some point along the path you will meet the p

Your outcomes are significantly connected to your identity. So, in this episode of the Leader Manager Coach Podcast, Rob teaches you how to find and value not just yours, but also your mentees'/team'/students' identity. Finding your identity requires time and, it may take years for others. But once, you've found it and know how you can use it at your advantage then you're unstoppable in achieving success.Also, if you want to develop a high-performing team, you have to recognise your player's identity and help them understand how this significant part of themselves can help them and the team. If they haven't found it yet, guide them, so do they do it on their own. Start listening in to know more.KEY TAKEAWAYSThe definition of identity is who you are; it's about you and the people that you lead. And in the dictionary, it's defined as the repeated beingness; it's what you repeatedly do.James Clear's 2 Aspects of Creating Success:Focus on the outcome.Focus on your identity.The outcome is part of your identity. So