Synopsis
Each week we share our 3 different perspectives on topics dealing with relationships, recovery, betrayal & addiction leaving you with HOPE for change no matter your circumstance.
Episodes
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Ep: 11 Denial Part I
01/05/2017 Duration: 24minAs the addicted I was in denial for decades and was blind to how. Ashlynn watched me in denial and that only sent her deeper in betrayal trauma. This two part series will reveal how detail takes place in both the addict and the betrayed.
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Friday 5: There is More Good in You Than There Isn't
24/04/2017 Duration: 06minWhen we think about ourselves in addiction we can so easily think that we are only as good as our sobriety date. In truth God does not see our worth as a date. Giving ourselves grace is key to recovery.
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Ep: 10 Dealing with Codependency
24/04/2017 Duration: 25minCopependent behavior is a thing for most of the betrayed but at the same time codependency often times manifests in the addict and can be fuel on the fire of addiction. Learn some key skills to identify and overcome codependency
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Friday 5: The Betrayed Needs Support Too
17/04/2017 Duration: 04minHaving the right kind of support is important to healing from betrayal. Find out what options you can exercise to get what you need and from whom.
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The Practice of Daily Gratitude
17/04/2017 Duration: 22minIt is such a contrary while in life's major battles to stop and practice gratitude. But what could life be like if it was put into practice?
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Friday 5: Checking Boxes vs. Owning Recovery
11/04/2017 Duration: 05minThere is a battle between the addicted and the betrayed about authentic efforts and motives to be in recovery. It is easy to check boxes but what does it look like to own your recovery?
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Ep: 9 The Workshop Review
11/04/2017 Duration: 14minWe hosted a workshop with a handful of couples and people to help them gain safety and trust again with 4 simple skills. This is a review of how it went and what our takeaways were.
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Friday 5: Is there Hope in Healing?
03/04/2017 Duration: 05minCan trust be established once lost? Can I feel safe again? Will the hurt go away and life get back to normal so I don't always think about my life being upside down? If you have asked any of these questions this podcast will stir you as Ashlynn explores how
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Ep: 7 Creating Connection
27/03/2017 Duration: 31minAddiction is many things, one of which is an unhealthy way of creating connection. So how does the betrayed and the addicted begin to create healthy connection? Listen.
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Ep: 6 How to Rebuild Trust
24/03/2017 Duration: 26minWhen betrayal has entered a marriage and life has turned upside down, how can trust be rebuilt? This podcast will share key points to consider from the betrayed, the addicted and the expert as you work to rebuild trust
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Ep:5 Sobriety & Recovery - Is There a Difference?
21/03/2017 Duration: 21minSobriety is refraining but Recovery is recovering your self worth, gaining skills & moving forward
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Friday 5: Getting Out of Victim Mode
17/03/2017 Duration: 04minLearning how to get out of "victim mode" in 5 minutes
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Ep:4 What to do When the Betrayed Relapses
13/03/2017 Duration: 21minCan a spouse of an addict relapse? YES. What does it look like, feel like & how to deal with it.
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Ep: 3 Learn from a Relapse
06/03/2017 Duration: 23minRelapse is part of recovery BUT learning from it is a HUGE opportunity for growth.
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Ep: 2 How to Respond to a Spouse in Betrayal Trauma
02/03/2017 Duration: 22minBetrayal hurts. Betrayal trauma is a thing and is devastating. There are no words that can heal betrayal trauma but you can successfully navigate deeply painful moments like these and allow the one who hurts to simply feel validated in their pain.
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Ep: 1 How do I know I am an Addict or have Betrayal Trauma
22/02/2017 Duration: 27minWhat does it mean to be a sex addict or to have betrayal trauma? Signs, symptoms & what to do now.