The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

***TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES IN THIS EPISODE. K so this episode totally sucks on the sound issue so you'll have to turn it up and then down cause Coby's mic does not work. :( So sorry guys. Working on it but the content is good! To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/

We went through 3 different therapists before we found out there is such a thing as specialized therapy. When we were seeing a marriage therapist we brought up addiction but we tip toed around the symptoms of Ashlynn's betrayal and my behavior. Learn from us and find the right kind of help from a specialist. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more detail

Is a sex fast a good idea? How long do I have to go? Why do a sex fast? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com

Intimacy in marriage is a key component to life and happiness but how does a couple foster it? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com

Is it the women's fault for dressing immodestly or is it the man' s issue for allowing his thoughts to go to lust? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to ashlynnandcoby.com For a free trail with Bloomforwomen.com and

Ashlynn shares her insights as to how she was able to rise from the betrayal and be the woman who she is today. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to ashlynnandcoby.com For a free trail with Bloomforwomen.com and a

There are many resources out there for the addicted but how do you know what is the right tool for you to prevent relapse. It is hard but in this episode we share what works for us and Brannon shares insights from over a decade of experiences treating sex addiction and betrayal. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to cen

How do we find the right help and what role church leaders can play. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to ashlynnandcoby.com For a free trail with Bloomforwomen.com and a 15% off monthly subscription us the promo c

Is it possible that focusing on progress and letting go of perfection is the more balanced and realistic approach to recovery? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to ashlynnandcoby.com For a free trail with Bloomforw

Everyone needs a little dance space in life and especially in marriage. Listen to how Brannon defines love and what the boundary can be that prevents consuming. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to ashlynnandcoby.com

Addiction and betrayal trauma both have immense impact on spirituality. Ashlynn and Coby both had to reevaluate how they felt in church and how they felt about their relationship with God. It took some time but now they are stronger than ever.

We all have self-defeating thoughts but our argument is that God doesn't send us wired to think those thoughts but by living life they do come. Our aim is to help you see how you can identify those thoughts and let them go. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to https://www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on

We all have emotions but identifying them and allowing ourselves to connect with them is hard. Listen to see how we do it and then identify how you can implement the skill. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to ashlynnandcoby.com. To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to https://www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to center4hopeandhealing.org For group and one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go

Where did addiction begin? What are its roots and how do I deal with them?

Dating is something everyone does before they get serious in their relationship. So how is it possible when things are hard?

We all have people in life that don't lift us or who don't build us up or inspire us and we need to have those people in our lives. Letting go of toxic relationships can be hard but sometimes can be EXACTLY what we need.

We've had more fights in our 17 years of marriage than we can count. However since recovery began in the Fall of 2014, we had the biggest fight since we've had since then. In times past we would have just been pissed for days but within 36 hours we made HUGE progress in learning from it.

This is a classic Brannonism..."don't should on yourself." Anytime we say "I should do this" or "I should have done that" it indicates the motive of that action or thought which is shame. Being mindful of it is key to being resilient to shame.

We all know addicts demonstrate denial but how does it show up in the betrayed? This is part two on denial and will be super insightful for both the addicted and the betrayed.

It is so hard to face life when you are the betrayed. It is exhausting and hard but know it is more difficult than it is to actually get specialized help. Ashlynn shares some motivation on how to get going when things are tough.