Synopsis
Each week we share our 3 different perspectives on topics dealing with relationships, recovery, betrayal & addiction leaving you with HOPE for change no matter your circumstance.
Episodes
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Ep: 46 Objectifying That Woman
12/02/2018 Duration: 34minHow is objectifying women different from lusting? Is the addict the only one who can objectify a woman? How do we transition out of objectification? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to www.ashlynnan
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Ep: 45 Stuck in Hard Stuff? Consider EMDR.
05/02/2018 Duration: 39minHave you ever had moments where you irrationally react in a situation because something that someone said did set you off? Ashlynn and Coby have to be sure. Listen to how past moments in life had them stuck and how EMDR has helped them move past them so they don't react but calmly respond. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy w
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Ep: 44 So the Addict Doesn't Want to Have Sex
31/01/2018 Duration: 28minNot acting out is what is wanted but what happens when the addict avoids or withholds sex? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com
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Ep: 43 Why Affairs Happen
22/01/2018 Duration: 33minAffairs are devastating to a relationship. The pain is obvious but the motives are not. Listen as Coby's emotional affair and how couples can keep this from happening. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted
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Ep: 42 Don't Confuse Being Nice with Being Honest
15/01/2018 Duration: 32minBeing compliant is often confused with being nice and honest. However when the addict can give an honest answer, compliance is not always what they are thinking and want to do. In the end, both the betrayed and the addict want to live in truth and both will be served by it. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go t
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Ep: 41 Your Child is Watching Porn. Now What?
04/12/2017 Duration: 43minWhat do you do when your child is watching porn? What is the right approach? How can you help them mover through it successfully. Listen as Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon share insights from their own experience on how to tackle this issue. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For g
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Ep: 40 Dealing with Family in Recovery
28/11/2017 Duration: 36minHow do you show up to that family party when things are totally out of sorts or when your partner is mad or when you don't want to pretend that all is well. How can a couple be safe and authentic around family when working recovery? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group
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Ep: 39 Gaslighting and Crazy Making
21/11/2017 Duration: 31minCoby used to throw little comments at Ashlynn in effort to make her think she was crazy or all messed up. This was all in effort to deflect the effects of his addiction to her. Listen as Brannon helps reveal how to identify this decisive strategy and let it go. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center
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Ep: 38 What is REAL Honesty
07/11/2017 Duration: 38minAs a kid, Coby never considered the truth or integrity when answering question from authority figures as it was more about self preservation and not getting in trouble. That mentality carried into their marriage and caused so much betrayal. See how Brannon sheds light on this common experience. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For ther
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Ep: 37 The One Thing You Need for Recovery
30/10/2017 Duration: 24minThere are many pieces and parts of recovery that can foster healing. This one thing was challenging for Coby as it required him to do something that he had never done in his adult life. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed
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Ep: 36 Framework of Separation
23/10/2017 Duration: 32minSeparation needs purpose, objectives and framework. If done correctly it can be the end of the old unhealthy relationship and the beginning of a new one. That takes purpose and mental focus. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betra
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Ep: 35 Letting Go of Labels
16/10/2017 Duration: 29minWithout evening realizing it, Coby became the "addict" when he told himself as much and then acted accordingly. Ashlynn became the betrayed but they have worked hard to not label each other. Letting go of labels was key for them. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group an
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Ep: 34 What If "They" Don't Do the Work?
09/10/2017 Duration: 30minWhat if the betrayed does not want to do the work? It's the addicted's problem anyways right? What if the addicted does not want to do the work? How can this situation be approached in a healthy way? To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring f
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Ep: 33 The First Steps in Healing
03/10/2017 Duration: 50minHow do you start healing? What does the betrayed and the addicted do first? What are the things to keep in mind? Who do you need? Listen as the Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon share their experience in the first steps in healing. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or
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Ep: 32 You'll Never Regret Being Vulnerable
25/09/2017 Duration: 36minHow can you be vulnerable with some who hurts you so deeply? Listen to this honest and courageous conversation about the role of vulnerability because on the other side of it is connection. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betraye
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Ep: 31 Ashlynn and Coby's Story
18/09/2017 Duration: 46minHonest, transparent, raw and real are all words that describe the story of Ashlynn and Coby. Listen and have hope that change really is possible for both the betrayed and the addicted. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and
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Ep: 30 Connection to God in Recovery Possible?
11/09/2017 Duration: 41minRenewing or redefining connection to a Higher Power is key for both the betrayed and the addicted. Listen how Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn share their perspectives on how God was wiling to meet them where they were in their journey. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group an
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Ep: 29 Getting Out of Victim Mode
04/09/2017 Duration: 36minVictim Mode is so sneaky and can keep people stuck in such deep ways. Couples can do the same. Ashlynn and Coby spent years in victim mode blaming the other but never really understanding how taking responsibility is a door of process in recovery and finding hope. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.cen
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Ep: 28 The Right Kind of Check In
29/08/2017 Duration: 25minSo many ask how does Coby and Ashlynn do their check in each night? What do you say and what don't you say? There is a right and wrong way of doing this. Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby describe the delicate and very important process on the right kind of check in. To watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www
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Ep: 27 Isolation in Betrayal and Addiction
21/08/2017 Duration: 38minTo watch a video on Ashlynn and Coby's story go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com To learn more about workshops offered by Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby go to www.betrayedaddictedexpert.com for more details. For therapy with Brannon go to www.center4hopeandhealing.org For group and/or one on one mentoring for the betrayed and the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com For a free trail with Bloomforwomen.com us the promo code “AC”.