Quotes From The Top Of The Mind

Quote: ""There are two ways to make someone important in our lives . . . we can either love them or hate them.” - Bill Crawford, Ph.D. Comment: This perspective has come to me from the work I do with individuals and organizations around stress and dealing with difficult people. For example, it never seems to fail that in my presentations, when I ask the participants to describe the problems they encounter on a daily basis, many will speak to the challenges of dealing with a particular person. The stories they tell about these people are very convincing, and I have no doubt that the person or persons that they are describing are indeed hard to live and/or work with. And yet, I wonder if our tendency to focus so intently on these problematic individuals is truly serving us? In other words, by continually thinking about all the ways they drive us crazy and make us nuts, aren't we really making them more important and even more powerful than they really deserve to be? To find the answer, after the participa