School Of Attraction Podcast

In this episode of the School of Attraction podcast, Damien reconnects with Chris Manak, a long-time dating coach and friend, to explore the evolving landscape of dating. They dive deep into what it’s really like dating in Southeast Asia, why many men mistakenly think moving overseas makes romance easier, and how cultural differences shape attraction.The conversation also unpacks how apps have reshaped modern dating, the rise of apathy in relationships, and whether men and women are drifting so far apart that AI and digital partners may become the norm. Damien and Chris bring candid insights, real-world stories, and hard-hitting truths about what it takes to succeed in today’s dating world.Whether you’re tired of swiping, curious about dating abroad, or wondering how masculinity and connection are changing in our times, this episode offers a refreshing and thought-provoking take on love, sex, and attraction.

In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien sits down with Marcus, host of Secrets of a Sugar Daddy, for a candid deep dive into the sugar dating lifestyle. From jaw-dropping stories to surprising success stories, Marcus shares how he went from a traditional marriage to navigating one of the most misunderstood dating subcultures in the world.You’ll discover:The realities vs. misconceptions of sugar dating — it’s not always “old guy with a 21-year-old”Red flags, green flags, and how to spot scams before it’s too lateWhy many high-value men turn to sugar dating instead of apps or barsHow chemistry and connection still matter — even when money is on the tableReal stories of relationships (and even marriages) born out of sugar datingWhether you’re curious, skeptical, or just love outrageous dating stories, this episode shines a light on a taboo world that’s shaping modern relationships in unexpected ways.

What does it really mean to be masculine in today’s world? In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien is joined by returning guest Wienecke for a raw, thought-provoking conversation on masculinity, aggression, and the modern challenges men face.Together, they break down:Why so many messages about being a man today are extreme, unhealthy, or rooted in controlThe four core masculine traits (aggression, risk-taking, status, and sexuality) — and how to channel them in positive waysThe difference between being willing to fight vs. wanting to fight — and why that mattersHow suppression of masculine traits can backfire, leading to disturbing dreams or misplaced aggressionThe importance of mentorship, healthy outlets, and self-awareness for men navigating their identityThis episode isn’t about tearing down masculinity — it’s about reclaiming it in ways that foster strength, connection, and authenticity.If you’ve ever struggled with the conflicting messages around masculinity today, this is a conversa

In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien sits down with head coach Denny Jones to unpack how the dating landscape has radically changed over the past decade. From the early days of Tinder’s explosive rise to today’s hyper-competitive online dating scene, they explore why so many young men now feel overwhelmed, socially anxious, and disconnected.You’ll hear eye-opening insights on:The hidden pressures modern men face from social media and online dating appsWhy fewer men are approaching women in real life — and how that creates massive opportunities for those who doThe lure (and dangers) of Red Pill communities, and why it’s easy for frustrated men to get sucked inHow to build real confidence and social skills in an age of isolationIf you’ve ever felt stuck swiping, anxious about rejection, or frustrated by today’s dating culture, this conversation will give you both clarity and a way forward.

Dating coach Ryan Dixon has noticed a drastic change in the mindsets of men over his 13 year coaching  career.  And this mindset is making it ever harder for them to find success in the modern dating landscape. How can men find success? What should they be avoiding? How can they develop their confidence in a world that can feel like it's designed to keep them down? Ryan Dixon - www.schoolofattraction.com.au

What is social media doing to modern dating trends? How is it hurting women just as badly as it hurts men? Where do we go as a society moving forwards from this point? How to we bridge the gap between men and women who are hurt and traumatised by past dating experiences? Hayley Quinn coaches both men and women as a professional dating coach - To find out more visit her at: www.hayleyquinn.com 

Men's councillor discusses the path to self-confidence and a strong sense of masculine identity.  Why are men suffering so much in the current climate, and what are the biggest emotional hurdles men are facing now when it comes ot dating, and how can they overcome them. American Masculinity Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/7N41BVkVzYcGmeUB8qabbt?si=8844adb01db3414b

Could a chatbot actually help you get better with women? As a professional dating coach, I was skeptical too… so I put ChatGPT to the test.In this video, I run through 15 real-world dating skills — from Tinder openers and flirting, to photo feedback and planning great dates — and I compare what AI said… to what I would recommend.Which dating coach wins: human experience or artificial intelligence? Spoiler: You might be surprised by how useful this thing really is (especially if you’re shy, just starting out, or on a budget).

Get a top - down view of the complete attraction process from approaching a woman to getting her number, to asking her home. What are all the points of attraction, and how do they fit together, when should you banter? When should you build rapport? How can you avoid rejection? This makes it easier for single men to discover what part of the their attraction process they need to work on to get better results. 

I’m going to reveal a little-known but powerful method to activate a woman’s “attraction switch” that most guys completely ignore. Forget the surface-level conversations and typical pickup lines—this is about building deep rapport through a series of targeted questions that create genuine connections.When you learn how to build rapport the right way, you’ll see immediate results. Women will be more engaged, less likely to flake, and you’ll avoid fake phone numbers for good. The secret lies in activating her emotional and attraction switches through the underrated power of rapport.I’ll show you how to ask the right questions, at the right time, to foster a connection that goes beyond surface-level attraction.

How can a completely average man learn to go from going on 1 date a year to going on 4 or more dates a week? This funnel plus multipliers strategy can show men how to date and attract more women without ever having to cold approach again. This is a dating coaching strategy that nobody else has shown you before.

Want to level up with women FAST? If I lost all my social skills today, these are the EXACT steps I’d take to dominate dating—no sleaze, no BS. From notebook hacks to Latin dance moves, this is your cheat code to confidence, charm, and a killer social life. Dating tips, social skills, women advice—start winning now!

Struggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial interactions in bars and clubs. But here’s the kicker: my students don’t face this issue as much as you'd think!In this video, I’ll reveal why most men experience cold responses and how my clients are able to connect more naturally—by simply avoiding common approach mistakes that most guys overlook.I’ll break down the 7 key reasons behind quick rejections, like not smiling, failing to “lock in,” and mismatched energy levels. Plus, you’ll see real excerpts from my students’ field reports to show how minor adjustments can lead to major changes in how women respond.If you’re ready to stop getting instantly rejected and start approaching women with confidence, hit play and learn how to avoid these common pitfalls.

I explored feminist reddit groups to try and work out why so many men are feeling negative about the movement.  I was shocked to find so much negative and toxic sentiment aimed at men in general.  It's not all feminists, it's not even half of them, but it's enough to muddy the waters and give the whole feminist movement a bad reputation for anyone casually watching. I'm going to share some of the comments and posts I found by just browsing the 20 most recent posts on the front page and you can decide for yourself. 

Being cheated on by a woman is one of the most painful experiences we can go through in a relationship.  I'm going to give you a list of the most common red flags men should be looking out for both before you decide to get into a long term relationship with a woman, and when you're in a long term relationship and suspect something bad could be going on. While you can't guarantee a woman will never cheat on you, there is a lot you can do to drastically reduce the odds of it happening to you ever again. 

In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful and misunderstood books ever written about masculinity — Iron John by Robert Bly.Whether you're struggling with confidence, feeling lost in your purpose, or just tired of being the “nice guy” who finishes last — this book has something to say to you.I break down Bly’s core ideas — from the Wild Man, to father wounds, emotional descent, and reclaiming your masculine power — in a way that's clear, relatable, and even a little funny.This isn’t just a book summary. It’s a wake-up call.

In this powerful and no-fluff episode, Damien sits down with world-renowned relationship expert Susan Winter to dismantle the outdated myths holding men back in modern dating. From why confidence without authenticity turns women off, to how practicing with zero-pressure conversations can transform your social life, this episode is packed with gold. Susan shares insights from her decades of coaching, media appearances, and bestselling books to help you finally understand what women really want—and why your mindset matters more than your pickup lines. Whether you’re shy, introverted, or just tired of dating apps, this is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed. https://www.susanwinter.net/https://www.youtube.com/c/SusanWinter/featuredhttps://www.instagram.com/susanewinterhttps://twitter.com/susan_e_winterhttps://www.facebook.com/susanwinterrelationshipexpert/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-winter-033a433https://www.tiktok.com/@susanewinter

Learn how to approach women at night in a bar in a variety of situations. What do you say when you first approach a woman? What's the difference between approaching a group of 2 women or a group of 3 women? What's the easiest group of women to approach and get good results? Dating And Relationship Coachhttps://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=HowToApproachNight

Are common myths about self-confidence holding you back? I'll dive into the top 5 misconceptions about self-confidence that are making it harder to build genuine self-assurance. Discover the truth behind these confidence myths, understand what self-confidence really is (and isn’t), and learn practical tips to break free from these limiting beliefs. Whether you're struggling to feel more confident or want to stop comparing yourself to seemingly "confident" people, this video will give you the clarity and tools to boost your self-esteem. Don't let false ideas stop you from becoming your best self!1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=5Confidence

In this video, we dive deep into the hidden ways self-perception shapes your dating life and how it impacts your success with women. Many men unknowingly hold themselves back due to negative beliefs and false narratives about "what women want." Drawing from a groundbreaking experiment in sports coaching, we reveal how changing your mindset can drastically improve your results in dating and life.