Stuff Dad Never Told You

Here are 3 things I feel are helpful to know as a dad. let's get into it!Value the first five yearsBe prepared to sacrifice. Your life is not the blueprint.----Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

We are the variable. Think about how detailed and complex in design a human being is and everything that makes who we are. Two people can go through the same thing but have different reactions.When you realise that you can’t quantify someone’s pain, struggle or suffering by your measurements, you can then identify the raw element or universal emotion that they are experiencing. Try not to judge someone’s situation by your own standard or measurements. ----Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

The value of a goal is not simply in just completing it, but every lesson learned, every fear overcome, every challenge confronted and each problem solved. When  you commit to a goal there is so much more you gain then just achieving the prize of the goal.----Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

We are all raised by imperfect people and have multiple factors or events that have happened in our lives which have left us with unexplainable feelings an emotions which we can't quite make sense of at times, this week I share my thoughts on all that.----Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

This week I'm touching on a thought that has been playing in my mind because of the way I have been thinking about the things I want in life... is it really possible to have it all, all at one time?----Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

Hold up a minute... wait, before you get married have a listen to this and consider some the things I have observed in my own marriage. Enjoy! ----Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

If you are interested in the music industry at all or want to transition from being an employee to self-employed doing the thing that you love, then this is for you. Shaun takes us through his experiences and gems he has picked up along the way.---We touch on:Being married in musicTransition into producingGoing from hobby to being paidMusic producing being more than just moving nobsWhat happens when the passion is goneTaking guidance and counsel ---Guests:Hypertone (Shaun Barrett)https://www.instagram.com/hypertone/https://twitter.com/hypertone---Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

If I asked the question "how do you feel?" Most if not all of us would answer by saying, "I'm okay, I'm fine, cool or good". However, none of these answers ever truly describes what we truly feel. Words sometimes fail us in our attempt to express emotions or the storm that is taking place in our minds, so today I share a tip that I forget about sometimes but is highly valuable when I remember to use it.----Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

Today I'm joined by Marc Jones & Jordan Ignatius, two guys who I know have got their priorities in place. They are both also property owners in their mid 20's, which may not seem like something for some, but where I come from the number of young (especially black) men who are in this position is small, so it was important for me to shed more light on this area so that their experiences might be a help to anyone who needs it.---We touch on:Marriage Giving back Understanding the cultureBudgeting & savingUnderstanding creditBuying a home---Guests:Jordan Ignatiushttps://www.instagram.com/j__ignatius/https://www.instagram.com/reachinghigheruk/Marc Joneshttps://www.instagram.com/marcjonesartist/Snapchat/Twitter: marcjonesartisthttps://youtu.be/1nUKF8Hcx78---Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

Some times its hard to identify when we are falling in to negative patterns of behavior like procrastination. Today I have a talk about how I spot theses markers in my life and the things that have/ are helping me to eliminate procrastination in my life.I touch on:Reasons why we procrastinateSigns and indicators Tips to help avoid procrastinationVisit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

Join me in today's episode where Philip J Morris, Actor and Theatre Director shares his current journey and pursuit within the Arts along with the struggles and positive times he has had on the way. We touch on:Becoming a Man How to be a voice in a large space Importance of being with someone who shares your dreamDealing with Self DoubtDealing with CriticismVisit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6​

This is a short but powerful one. A change the way of thinking that helps me feel more and more motivated each day.Visit: sdnty.co.uk. for show notes and resources and more info on the show! Instagram: @sdnty_podcastTwitter: "forgive me I have never really taken to it.... maybe one day" Facebook: "I took a break and never came back"

This week I'm joined by @adadthatdoes (instagram) Mark Goodridge, to talk about some of the stuff we face when raising boys and how we have been dealing with it. Hope you enjoy!Any questions leave them in the comments and we will hit you back with best answers we can come up with lol.We touch on:Issues boys face growing up How to support without judgement Understanding the value and consequences of sexGirlfriendsPractical tipsVisit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

Co-parenting for me was not the norm growing up, so needless to say it has been a minefield now that I'm a husband and father. Here is one of the lessons that I have learned.Visit:sdnty.co.ukEmail me:brad@sdnty.co.ukInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/sdnty_podcast/Twitter:https://twitter.com/sdntypodcastiTunes:https://apple.co/2HMjWV6

We all think we will do better but is better really enough?

Its funny how the smallest things said to you have the have the strongest lasting impressions throughout your life.

Today I share some of my experiences dealing with my son and dating.

Sometimes you do things or are caught in situations that you never intended to be in. Your reaction to these pressures or circumstances might lead you to choices that you would never normally make. We don't always know why people make poor choices but we can try our best to understand before making any judgements.