The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby share insights and their own experience with balancing a healthy relationship when things did not start out that way.  Coby shares his perspective on the relationship he had with his own Mother and what impact it had on his marriage.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Jessica joins Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon to share her experience of hope and healing.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby all share thier take on how essential it is to keep reality front of mind when considering where our partner is in their recovery.  This episode discusses one key piece that could get in the way of reality.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss the concept of the one who betrayed in the relationship having a voice.  This is a complicated but very important part of any relationship.  DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Tony Overbay is an expert in Narcissism Personality Disorder and he joins Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby to talk the ins and outs of narcissism how how it comes to be.  To find more about Tony Overbay go to his website at tonyoverbay.com.    DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby  

Murray Hidary is a music composer and shares how music, along with other therapy efforts, helped him heal from the biggest and most challenging trauma and trial of his life.  He discusses what his role was in his own efforts as a composer to heal as well as thousands and thousands of others on his website mindtravel.com Murray Hidary is a meditation teacher, composer and pianist.  He studied Music and Composition at NYU & sees music as a bridge connecting that which is hidden with that which is manifest. Hidary is well known for his SilentHikes where Participants wear headphones while they experience an environment such as a garden or a beach, guided by verbal and musical cues from him.   Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to

While Brannon is on vacation, Ashlynn and Coby address what they have learned about going on holiday while still dealing with heavy issues and still being in the throws of recovery.  They will address the following topics: - healthy compartmentalism - planning for triggers - planning around "seasons" - planning enough "recharge time"   Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss the very tricky topic of disclosure and how it can be messed up when denial is present.  

Dr. Robert Navarra is the guest on this episode and discusses the balanced way a couple can simultaneously work recovery while focusing on alternatives to codependency. Dr. Navarra is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist and Master Trainer, and holds National Certification as a Master Addiction Counselor. He is a popular presenter at national conferences, podcasts, and webinars. He has trained counselors and therapists nationally and internationally. Dr. Navarra has co-authored several book chapters with Drs. John and Julie Gottman and co-authored articles on Gottman Therapy for the Encyclopedia of Couple and Family Therapy with Dr. John Gottman. Additionally, Dr. Navarra contributed an article on couple recovery from addiction for the Encyclopedia of Couple and Family Therapy. Based on his research at Mental Research Institute in Palo Alto California, Dr. Navarra created Roadmap for the Journey: A Path for Couple Recovery, a two-day workshop for couples in recovery from an ad

Coby shares his personal experience with letting go of his addiction and what that looked like but he also shares why he held onto it for so many decades without consciously knowing it.  Brannon and Ashlynn also share their observations and experience on this difficult and perplexing concept.   Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby  

With the launch of their new program called BEYOND BETRAYAL, Ashlynn and Brannon share what they have both observed and what Ashlynn has experienced first hand.  Listen as they describe what healing really feels like.   Beyond Betrayal is the newest program from BAE and in this episode, Brannon and Ashlynn outline the content.  During the launch week, starting 15 Sept 2020 and extending through Sunday 27 Sept 2020, the program will be discounted by 40% so take advantage of this unique and comprehensive content that was masterfully put together by Brannon and Ashlynn both.   Click here to get more info on Beyond Betrayal: https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal   Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/recovery_co... https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat

This episode is focused on the topic of what to do when you find out your partner is cheating.  Brannon and Ashlynn drill down on this situation and Ashlynn shares what she did in each case when her partner Coby cheated.  Brannon also gives key insights into this situation from the perspective of the professional who has treated people for this exact situation.     Beyond Betrayal is the newest program from BAE and in this episode, Brannon and Ashlynn outline the content.  During the launch week, starting 15 Sept 2020, the program will be discounted by 40% so take advantage of this unique and comprehensive content that was masterfully put together by Brannon and Ashlynn both.   Click here to get more info on Beyond Betrayal: https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal   Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... C

Beyond Betrayal is the newest program from BAE and in this episode, Brannon and Ashlynn outline the content.  During the launch week, starting 15 Sept 2020, the program will be discounted by 40% so take advantage of this unique and comprehensive content that was masterfully put together by Brannon and Ashlynn both.   Click here to get more info on Beyond Betrayal: https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal   Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/recovery_co... https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn share their insights on 5 ways to work through betrayal triggers and discuss the launch of a new program for the betrayed called "Beyond Betrayal". Find out about the new program Beyond Betrayal by going to https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal   Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/recovery_co... https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Trusting one's self following betrayal can be so challenging.  Knowing what is real and what is not, is a struggle.  Listen as Brannon and Ashlynn share insights on what this path may look like.     Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/recovery_co... https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Is there a timeline I can follow on healing from betrayal?  When will it stop hurting?  How long till life is back to normal?  Will it ever be normal?  These questions are discussed in today's episode.    Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/recovery_co...https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Today, we have Kim Christensen (@talkwordytome) to the show! She is a writer, reader, mother, blogger, entrepreneur and creator of Loom Journals now Promptly. She’s been a journalist, radio talk show host and magazine editor & is working on her 2nd novel. Get 15% off with discount code "Beyond Enough" on www.promptlyjournals.com   Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/recovery_co...https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby

Brannon is joined by Amy Andrus and three of her kids so they can share their perspective while going through their parents divorce. Amy Andrus, Coby and Ashlynn's therapist, joins the podcast to share obstacles they faced and overcame in order to get into recovery.   Amy is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 2000 & CSAT since 2013.  She’s taught courses at BYU & counseled many students at the Women’s Services and Resources Center, where her eyes were opened to the world of sexual addiction and trauma.  Amy's life has been affected by sex addiction in a personal way. She knows the struggle, shame, and guilt the addict experiences. She has found it rewarding to facilitate individual change and work with the family system to ensure long-term growth and change.  Amy's a single mom of six. Her youngest daughter has Down Syndrome, and raising her has taught her countless life lessons. Find her on Instagram at  @askamyandrus   Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 Check out o

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Ashlynn, and Coby to share her work on how to discuss healthy sexuality with kids. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. She has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. In addition to her dissertation research on LDS women's sexuality and relationship to desire, she has taught college-level human sexuality courses. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships.  She offers online relationships and sexuality courses as well as live workshops and retreats for LDS couples and individuals. She can be found at finlayson-fife.com   Don't Know Where to Start?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect wit

In Part 2 of this series on How Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma Effect Kids, Dina joins Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon to discuss the topic of empowering and educating kids on porn.   Dina Alexander is the founder and CEO of Educate and Empower Kids. She is the creator of How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography and the "30 Days of Sex Talks" and "30 Days to a Stronger Child" programs.  You can find her at https://educateempowerkids.org.    Don't know where to start? Click here? beyond-enough.com/step1 Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/recovery_co... https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby