School Of Attraction Podcast

Whenever most guys think about getting casual sex, they often think about trying to get one-night stands - They picture going to a bar, finding a cute girl to talk to and trying to get her home that night. But this can be the worst strategy to have sex - it takes a long time, there are lots of ways to get rejected - and most women aren't looking to find met to sleep with this way. Book A 1:1 Zoom Coaching Session with Damien: https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/

I often hear guys wanting to learn how to be more masculine, or how to be more alpha, and the reason for this is to better attract women - because everyone knows that women lust after masculine men right? But what if our hunt for masculinity was a red herring causing us guys to chase our tails, while still having no more success with girls than we did before?Dating women is never simple, and building our self esteems as men is always an important part of the puzzle, but I have a suspicion that masculinity - or the common idea of masculinity is leading us astray. 

It's easy to talk about our most successful dates ever, and share stories of success with beautiful women - But nobody ever wants to talk about the biggest failures where we did something stupid that ruined our chances. I want to share 4 true and funny dating stories about how I crashed and burned with beautiful women because of something stupid I did or said. Because it doesn't matter who you are, we all screw up sometimes, and I want to normalise the sharing of failure stories - especially the ones that are the most fun to tell!

What is the best way to meet women in 2022? While so many of us spend time on online dating these days, this isn't necessarily the best way to find attractive girls to date. I'm going to explore a range of different ways of meeting women from cold approaching to social circle, introduction agencies, mail order brides, and travelling overseas. I'll tell you the very best way to find cute girls - and rank all the other options from best to worst. 

Maybe you struggle to approach women because you have approach anxiety, or you keep getting told "let's just be friends" - Or maybe you keep finding men who aren't ready for a relationship yet. There 1000s of ways we can become stuck in a repeating pattern of failing to get the results we want when dating. Often, the solution lies in doing some deeper work inside ourselves before our dating lives will change. But where should we look? Here is a checklist of areas all men and women should explore to unlock their ability to meet and attract the people they really want in their lives.

Many men and women struggle with setting boundaries when it comes to dating - they have the belief that boundary setting must always break rapport and feel like a reprimand. But actually poor quality boundaries are aggressive - Those of us with strong boundaries know how to do it in a way that builds rapport rather than breaks it. Setting strong boundaries with women builds attraction and respect, so if you're struggling with constantly getting your boundaries pushed - watch this video. 

For most guys, walking into a bar and approaching women is a completely alien idea - it's scary - and there's just so much you don't know. There are plenty of videos online teaching you how to approach women in bars, but most of them try to get you to pretend to be a super-confident d-bag in order to get women to pay attention. I want to show you my own style of picking up girls in bars which is heavily focused on the mindsets which women will respond strongly to. 

I'm going to discuss strategies for building a great sense of fun, comedy, and banter when flirting with women. This light-hearted discussion will cover some surprisingly deep aspects behind banter and the psychology of humour and attraction

Are you constantly worried about being too needy when dating?  Most men and women try hard to avoid looking too desperate or needy with their partners, and this often leads to wants and needs not being met. Needy behaviour is often seen as being repulsive by both men and women, so naturally, this is something we try not to do when attracting a mate. If you are asking a girl out on a date, or asking a man to spend more time with you, you need to be able to do it in a way that feels confident and not needy, but what's the distinction? 

Learn how the tinder ranking algorithm has changed in the last few years, and more importantly how you can exploit that system to help you get more matches. Online dating has seen a lot of gradual changes, so it has become very important for most guys to stay ahead of the curve if they hope to continue getting matches and dates along the way.  It's still possible for the average guys to do okay, but he needs to understand the art of  Niching to get there.

I interview Tantra coach Marcin aka the Kinky Guru about how he became more sexually confident in himself as a man - not by learning to pick up chicks, but by turning to the world of tantra. We're going to discuss some of the big lessons he learned on his journey to get to where he is today. 

One of the biggest things lacking from the lives of most men is a deep connection with other men, women, and people in general. We are suffering from a lack of community, connection, and generally feeling understood. But even if all you want to do is learn to meet more women, this is a skill that will help you a lot more than you probably realise. 

Dealing with breakups can be emotionally traumatising - There's all kinds of self-doubt, and self-esteem damage. We can feel like we're coming off of a drug addiction. But there are some really amazing strategies for moving on from breakups and minimising the amount of pain that we need to go through. And that's what I'm going to talk about today. 

I talk with a Femme Fatale, a representative of website arousr.com and talk about the ways men can begin to explore their kinks in the safety of online video. 

I sit and interview Divya Darling, a coach, business owner, and neuro-scientist, and a personal friend while we discuss the notion of why we feel we need things from women to feel happy - where our true sense of self, identity, and life satisfaction comes from. Most importantly Divya focuses on me personally as we try to dive deeply into some uncomfortable spaces in my own psyche. 

Author of the newly published book - Red Pill Ideology - Cynthia Payne sits with me as we take a very scientific look at the claims made by the red pill community. Which ones stand up under scrutiny, and which ones are disproven by peer-reviewed studies?

Dating has radically changed over the last 10 years with the dating app explosion and then the covid epidemic. What trends and patterns are we seeing shifting as dating coaches, and what are we seeing change as we age and change ourselves?

Today I talk with Jay - an ex School Of Attraction student and current mentor who really stepped into his masculine power and discovered how incredible life can be when you are willing to own your authentic self. Jay has been regularly meeting some incredibly intelligent, beautiful, and sometimes powerful women - and they've responded to him in ways neither he nor they ever expected. 

Have you ever thought about how similar sales skills are to seduction skills? If you have, then you're not alone. As it turns out, many of the same skills required to be amazing at sales are also required to attract women. I want to talk about push vs pull attraction today because one of the big differences between average guys and average salesmen is that they both try to PUSH people to do what they want them to do - nagging, and persistence. Neither of which makes you likely to ever have a great amount of success attracting women. 

The Hinge dating company recently released a series of statistics they gathered by combing through 1000 hinge dating app profiles to see which photos were most likely to get the most matches. Today, I'm going to look through the states provided by Hinge, to help you see how you can improve your online dating results.  Will any of these results surprise you? Will any of them surprise me? Keep watching to find out. Link To Hinge Statistics - https://medium.com/@Hinge/hinge-the-relationship-app-28f1000d5e76