School Of Attraction Podcast

I interview Dave Booda from https://boodaism.com/   about his journey and experiences working on his masculinity with a range of different men's work coaches and programs. 

Is your anxiety or depression all in your head? Is it just the result of bad thinking patterns in your mind? Or is it the result of something going wrong inside your body? I'm going to talk about my journey with anxiety and being told I was simply suffering from panic attacks when in reality I had a major serotonin and stress hormone regulation problem that nobody guessed at until I did my own research. If you suffer from a lot of stress, or you find yourself becoming frequently neurotic - perhaps it's not all in your head after all - and perhaps there's a very reasonable solution to the problem. Doctors don't always know the answers, and it helps everyone to go and become their own researchers to find the solutions. 

Stop feeling the shame of premature ejaculations and learn to last longer in bed - Here are 3 strategies for curing your premature ejaculation. I'm also going to teach you how to have women see you as being amazing in bed without even curing your PE first. As a bonus, I'm going to share my mystery box technique which creates a massive amount of sexual tension and arouses women into hyper-horny state without even engaging in penetration. There is a lot of shame for men around how long you last in bed - but actually, it's possible to leave her satisfied without penetrating her at all. 

David De-Angelo famously sadi that attraction wasn't a choice -  That women can't decide what guys they are attracted to - it is just a primal and sub-conscious process, and there's nothing us guys can do to change that fact. In truth, I agree with the basic idea that most women are on autopilot when it comes to what kinds of men they choose to date. But the truth is also more complicated than most men realise because they come from a scarcity mindset rather than an abundance mindset. I'm going to discuss the truth about what turns women one, why women choose particular men, and what you can do to go from a 'maybe' to a 'hell yes' in her mind. 

Most of the success I've had in my life I attribute to the skills I learned trying to become more successful with women.  From my relationship success to my business success, I've used these critical life skills in every part of my world. We often don't realise that we learn ego strength, self-esteem, sales skills, networking abilities when we work on our seduction and attraction skillset. The dating advice you have to learn to attract high-quality women are the same skills you'll use everywhere else. 

Do you know What Your Attraction Demons Are?   Did you know they're responsible for a lot of the pain you've suffered in dating and your relationships? Our attraction demons lead to the relationship dynamics we create in our romantic lives, whether we're just looking for something casual, or something more long time. It's very easy to feel that women are all untrustworthy or gold diggers, or just out to hurt men - but most of the time we create these dynamics ourselves as a result of our templates for romantic connection and our insecurities about ourselves and what we deserve. 

Are you in the trap of constantly meeting the same kinds of women? Do you feel like all women all have the same negative behaviours? Did you know that your taste in women, and the kinds of women you are drawn to are largely not related to attractiveness? Instead, we choose the women we tend to talk to based on our locus of attraction. Your locus of attraction is a way of choosing romantic partners that frequently leads men to choose the wrong women to date. 

How can you get deeply connected with your dark masculine sexuality? How would women behave differently around you? Today I'm going to share an exercise to start getting you connected with this long forgotten part of who you are as a man.Can you believe that being better connected with this part of ourselves as men, that we will feel more confident, more sexual, more deserving of amazing women. More than that, women will start to take notice of us and see us for the men we really are. Most men hide their dark sexuality or their shadows from women, especially when dating, and this is the absolute wrong thing to do, and causes women to see us as 'just f

Have you ever wondered what the difference is between a man looking charming and a man looking creepy? Many men avoid approaching women because they're anxious of coming across as creepy - but often they're not even sure how to avoid looking creepy to their crush. There's a lot of scientific research into the experience of creepiness and as it turns out - it's not so hard to avoid looking creepy around women. 

There is plenty to complain about online dating apps - You get ranked based on looks, Women are flakey, There are shady business practices. But are these unfair aspects of online dating really worth getting focussed on and obsessed with? Whether you use Tinder, or Bumble, Hinge, or Some other dating app - You're going to get frustrated at times. But I'd argue that there's a healthier mental approach to trying to meet women online, one that will give you the absolute best chance of meeting the most attractive women, and also being the happiest, best-adjusted version of yourself. 

If I have to hear another woman tell a guy to "just be himself" around women, and he'll have lots of dating success, I think I might have a conniption!  But actually - there's much deeper wisdom in this statement than I think the women saying it realise.  The simplicity of the statement makes it sound like it has a simple answer - but actually...Being yourself is one of the hardest things a man or woman can possibly hope to accomplish. It's a lifelong journey to work out what and who you really are in the world. It's the peak of self-improvement and self-development. 

While the whole world is jumping to online dating as a way to keep meeting dating partners, there's no denying that online dating is not an ideal way to meet people. Today I'm going to explore alternate ways that we may soon be meeting our dating partners in the near future - Because the world is always changing, and it's up to us to keep up. Why do you want to keep up with dating trends? Because just like Tinder was an incredibly easy way to meet women back in 2014, new dating trends offer the biggest rewards to early adopters. So let's explore some of these. 1. Social Network Dating2. Personal Match Making3. Video Speed Dating4. Professional Match Making5. Female Dominated Dating Market

Do you regularly ask yourself how you can make a particular woman like you?  Did you know that this question almost guarantees you won't get good results? How can this be? This question seems the most fundamental of all attraction conundrums. But actually focussing on trying to make women like you is the completely wrong way to meet and attract women. So what is the real secret to successfully picking up women? Assumed Attraction - and in today's video, I'm going to explain not just how it works, but how to build this dating superpower for yourself. 

Do all women seem to behave in the same way? Have you experienced the frustrating experience that women are gold diggers, or fickle, or superficial, or racist? Dating can definitely be frustrating for guys, but sometimes it's just "obvious" that women just aren't that great, and most women aren't worth dating at all. After I went on a catfish date this weekend, it made me think about how many men and women have a habit of creating dating patterns for themselves which keep creating the same painful experiences over and over again. Do you know that it's more likely than not that you are manifesting your own results with women, that your dating habits are ENSURING that you keep meeting just a single kind of woman over and over again, and that there are in fact many amazing kinds of women in the world that you aren't getting to meet.

Do you know what to expect from an open relationship experience?  Are you comfortable with your partner being intimate with other people? When you are thinking about opening up your relationship, many men and women don't really know what to expect from the world of polyamory - Because while it can be a lot of fun, most of us will also have to face a lot of demons and insecurities along the way. You will face Jealousy and Shame and insecurity - and you need to be able to communicate that to your partner rather than just lash out at them. This video is going to explore the most common things that couples need to consider when they think about entering into an open relationship.

While the whole world is jumping to online dating as a way to keep meeting dating partners, there's no denying that online dating is not an ideal way to meet people. Today I'm going to explore alternate ways that we may soon be meeting our dating partners in the near future - Because the world is always changing, and it's up to us to keep up. Why do you want to keep up with dating trends? Because just like Tinder was an incredibly easy way to meet women back in 2014, new dating trends offer the biggest rewards to early adopters. So let's explore some of these. 1. Social Network Dating2. Personal Match Making3. Video Speed Dating4. Professional Match Making5. Female Dominated Dating Market

What is the dark Masculine? How does it turn women on? How can you develop your dark masculine as a man? What shame do men typically hide from the world and why does it prevent them from having the sexually and emotionally rewarding relationships they crave. Join Sarah Martin from Sexual Craftsmanship ( http://www.sexualcraftsmanship.com) and I as we discuss these topics and much much more

Do you regularly ask yourself how you can make a particular woman like you?  Did you know that this question almost guarantees you won't get good results? How can this be? This question seems the most fundamental of all attraction conundrums. But actually focussing on trying to make women like you is the completely wrong way to meet and attract women. So what is the real secret to successfully picking up women? Assumed Attraction - and in today's podcast, I'm going to explain not just how it works, but how to build this dating superpower for yourself. 

Do all women seem to behave in the same way? Have you experienced the frustrating experience that women are gold diggers, or fickle, or superficial, or racist? Dating can definitely be frustrating for guys, but sometimes it's just "obvious" that women just aren't that great, and most women aren't worth dating at all. After I went on a catfish date this weekend, it made me think about how many men and women have a habit of creating dating patterns for themselves which keep creating the same painful experiences over and over again. Do you know that it's more likely than not that you are manifesting your own results with women, that your dating habits are ENSURING that you keep meeting just a single kind of woman over and over again, and that there are in fact many amazing kinds of women in the world that you aren't getting to meet.

What is an alpha male really? What are the traits that women are really looking for if they're looking for an alpha male? Do alpha males always get the women? When trying to become better men and develop alpha male personality traits, it's important to recognise that we frequently aren't even 100% sure what a human alpha male is. We often try to copy animal dominance traits in the hopes that women will respond well. But in truth, the signs of an alpha male are frequently  'softer' than many people realise. So I'm going to give you some alpha male strategies you can focus on to become more attractive to women.