School Of Attraction Podcast

Why did your ex leave you? How can you be more attractive to a woman? What do women want in a man? Are women just hypergamous? Why do relationships end? Today I'm going to explore the Value Exchange Theory of Mate Selection, which goes a long way to explaining why some couples thrive while others fall apart. It will also help men to better understand not just their past failed relationships, but also how to build themselves up into the kind of men that women are going to value more highly in the future

Today I want to tell you how to successfully approach girls - but most importantly I want to tell you how to do it without being creepy, scary, or intimidating. Unfortunately, the internet is full of guys approaching women in ways that are hyper-aggressive, sleazy, or just plain creepy, and man men are left feeling like this is the only way to approach a cute girl and have any kind of success.So if you're holding back on approaching women because you don't want to be THAT GUY that makes women feel weirded out, or uncomfortable. Then this is the video for you.

Did you know that Introverts can flirt with and attract women just as effectively as extroverts can?  Unfortunately, most dating advice out there is designed for extroverted guys, so sometimes it never feels like it's going to work for you. Today I'm going to show you how some of the introvert's superpowers, these are the strengths inherent to introverts that allow them to attract cute girls without having to pretend to be someone their not. This is the dating advice introverts need to hear!

Did you know that trying to sexually escalate early with a woman in a bid to get a one night stand or casual sex relationship is probably the wrong strategy for you right now? Most guys get focused on their sexual escalation skills rather than the rest of their attraction skills, and as a result, they miss out on a lot of interactions that may have led to sex eventually because they pushed too hard when they weren't ready for it yet. Today I'm going to look WHY you may well be better of waiting until your social skills are better developed before you start trying to learn how to escalate with women, and why this strategy will get you MORE action and not LESS as so many guys fear.

Attraction is not a choice! This is a phrase you've probably heard around the place -  Frequently on my Youtube comments, I'll have men decrying dating coaching as a scam activity because you can't negotiate with attraction. So is this dating mindset patently wrong? Is that what I believe? Is that what I tell myself to sleep well at night as a dating coach for over a decade? Oddly enough, I think there's a lot of truth to the basic notion - But today I want to talk about this concept and why there's so much more to the world of attracting women that one neat little phrase so easily misses along the way.

Why do women always seem to go for bad boys? Is this actually true? or is it just something people say without much proof? Well it's certainly true for many women - but like many things related to the psychology of sexual attraction, the truth is more complex and varied than the stereotypes implyIn this video, I'm going to compare the stereotype of men liking trashy dumb women to the stereotype of women liking bad boys, and demonstrate why it's actually a sign of low self-esteem in both genders that drives this stereotype. 

Trying to get matches on Tinder can sure be frustrating, but rarely is it more frustrating when your matches suddenly drop to almost 0, and you have no idea why it happened. As it turns out, there is a very real tinder saturation problem - this is an issue that will affect all online dating apps, and could well be happening to you.So what can you do to fix the problem? If you've suddenly noticed your tinder matches crash?

Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out andThe truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my own story of how I suddenly improved my success with women by focusing on having fun rather than on trying to pick up women. 

How can a man become more empowered? Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time. Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over. 

ith so many supposed studies out there about the science of attraction, many of which contradict each other, how do we find out which scientific dating research we can trust, and which we should ignore? Human sexuality is incredibly complex and diverse, and as it turns out humans are very prone to misinterpreting all kinds of data, but most significantly we misinterpret statistical data. Unfortunately, we are prone to a host of psychological biases which color how we view the dating world. In today's podacst I'm going to discuss some of those biases and the important questions we need to ask ourselves when we're presented with new information that may or may not be reliable. 

Are you getting frustrated with going on dates with women and they never seem to want to catch up a second time, and you're going crazy trying to work out why? Well thanks to some fantastic research from the only Psychologist to win a Nobel Prize - Daniel Kahneman, I'm going to show you a simple trick you need to be using to dramatically change how she feels about you after a first date.When you apply the Peak End rule to your date, you'll end up with far more second dates because women will have a much fonder memory of you and be much more eager to go for a second date.

What's the secret to getting a perfect girlfriend?Are you struggling to find girls that you think are worth dating? Does it seem like the world is full of bad eggs? Have your past relationships taught you that women aren't all that they seem when the relationship starts?  Perhaps you are just on the hunt for a great partner and came across this video. Today I want to talk to you about why most men have the completely wrong approach to finding an amazing partner, and this approach usually leads to a HUGE amount of heartache, and sometimes huge financial loss too.

How can you STOP being a nice guy? Have you ever got the impression that women walk all over you because you're too nice? Do you constantly get thrown into the friend zone? Do you feel like even your mates are taking advantage of you? Does your long term partner lose sexual interest in you really quickly? Odds are, you could be suffering from nice guy syndrome, and Today I'm going to show give you a deep look into what lies at the core of your condition, and most importantly how to stop doing this WITHOUT swinging in the complete opposite direction and become an a-hole.

In this video, I'm going to share with you 7 dating psychology books that weren't written by pick up artists that every man needs to read if he wants to become more successful with women. This list of books will help you develop a keen understanding of human psychology which you can learn to apply to attract more attractive women - The best part is that these books are written by real experts and not just guys who think they have the social skills required to get women. 

Which is better?  Tinder and all it's online dating cousins? Or putting in the time to learn to cold approach women? Well as it turns out, learning to cold approach women during the day or night is about so much more than just having a life full of beautiful women. It's about embarking on a journey of self-improvement. So much of what you discover when you're learning to cold approach women in bars/clubs and on the street, are skills that you'll use in almost all aspects of your life, not just when talking to girls. 

Did you know that woman have a completely different way of rating a guy's attractiveness to the way men rate women? This difference is cause for a lot of confusion for guys wanting to learn how to attract women, and make a really good first impression.Once you understand how women go about assessing a man's attractiveness, then you can learn to make changes to the way women first perceive you and suddenly start being a whole lot more attractive to women. 

Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out andThe truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my own story of how I suddenly improved my success with women by focusing on having fun rather than on trying to pick up women. 

Did you know that more than having money, and more than being attractive, there's one trait that you absolutely MUST have to attract women? Did you know that even if you're a good looking guy with a decent job, that without this trait then women aren't going to want to date you? What is this trait? And how does it help men attract women? The trait is empowerment, and after giving dating advice to men for over a decade, it's one of the single sexiest qualities a man can have. The moment a man becomes empowered, women start organically gravitating toward him. 

What do women want? What kind of men do women date?  What kind of men do women sleep with? Are women supposed to be monogamous? Are women genetically meant to seek out men for safety? Many questions like this about female sexual selection are based on stories that we hear growing up, and then stories we hear online and from our friends. Very often, these stories are completely wrong - and lead us to try approaching women in ways that hurt our chances of success rather than help. Finding a woman to date is far more complex that the stories we hear suggest - women have a highly flexible range of sexual behaviors that depend on a huge range of societal influences. 

When Tinder launched in 2012, it was super-easy to get matches and dates. You simply got a small batch of decent photos, threw them into your Tinder profile, and started matching with women in your area. But in 2019, that has all changed - The sheer volume of Tinder users has created an arms-race of competition among men who have to find better and better profile shots for their online dating profiles in order to get women to pay them any attention.