School Of Attraction Podcast

Are you thinking about doing a pickup Bootcamp over a weekend?  Are you getting really excited by all the hype and positive reviews you're seeing on the company's website? Today I want to talk about why most men should be very wary of doing a weekend pickup Bootcamp - and why I rarely ever run them myself.  And under what circumstances I DO run them.For guys who want to learn to be more successful with women, or learn to be pick up artists (PUA) there are usually quite a few dating coaches available in most big cities around the world. Unfortunately, weekends are almost always too short amount of time to learn some of the big lessons guys need to learn to be successful with women. There's a lot of self-development work which men need to go through that weekend bootcamps can't possibly address. 

When you meet a woman, why should you expect her to want to go on a date with you? This is a confronting question that many men fail to ask themselves. Today I'm going to be discussing the dating mindset that guys need to have before trying to learn to attract women. Because sometimes the best strategy is to work on yourself as a man first before trying to pick up girls. This is the dating advice that more men need to be hearing because there can be a lot of failures that men experience needlessly because they're focussed on the wrong attraction strategies. 

If you're struggling to get the women you ideally want, and your feeling lonely, should you lower your standards with women to get some attention? The whole notion of lowering standards to attract women is based on the social pressure and judgement men put on each other to only date physically attractive women, even if you can't meet any and end up feeling frustrated. In fact, when you do lower your standards, there are many very important skills you'll learn along the way that will quickly make you more successful with women

Did you know that quite a few people who think of themselves as being introverts aren't really introverts at all? There's a lot of confusion about what being an introvert or being an extrovert is really all about - and sometimes that can play a big role in defining how we see ourselves and our social capabilities. From its early beginnings with Carl Jung, to its present-day place in modern personality profiling systems, Introversion has become an extremely popular term in pop culture and the media. One of the most life-changing realisations you can have about yourself is if you're really an extrovert deep down inside, but keep mistaking your shyness for being an introvert. 

Is Hypergamy really something men need to conern themselves with? Is there solid science behind the term?If you aren't wealthy or good looking, are you doomed to be alone and unloved for the rest of your life?There's a trend in our current society to make men believe that women are only interested in men who are good looking, tall, and wealthy - and even though the science clearly shows this isn't the case, the mindset persists. I want to reach out in this video today and help men to see that there's more to dating and attraction that some supposed animal nature that women possess that we're powerless to do anything to oppose. 

Did you know that with the right strategies in place, solo approaching women can be just as much fun as going out with a bunch of wingmen? For most guys, the idea of going out to meet women all alone is completely alien, but I'm going to show you a strategy that has proven to get me MORE success than going out with friends, and frequently includes women trying to set me up with their friends as well! It has worked for me over the last 13 years, and still works an absolute treat today.

Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and all other online dating platforms are all just different kinds of online advertising mediums. Online advertising has its own success philosophy, and if you want to get lots of dates in your online dating profiles, then you should adopt the same kinds of mindsets as you would if you were advertising on Google Adwords or Facebook. Online dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have a lot of competition between men, all trying to market themselves to the available women. I'm going to help you stand out from that crowd.

I Want to share my life-long battle with anxiety and depression with my viewers - Too many men and women struggle with anxiety disorders on a daily basis, and it's easy to feel all alone. Anxiety can strike any one of us at any time, and it's important that more people talk openly about their experiences no matter how unflattering they may be. I myself felt a lot of shame about the anxiety that I suffered with, and it left me feeling even more isolated and alone than I already was, which led me to feel depressed. So I hope my story resonates with those of you watching who also suffer from depression and anxiety, and aren't sure how to get better.

What do women REALLY want in a man? What traits do you need to have to attract a woman in your life?   That seems to be a debate that has been raging amongst guys for a long time, but there really isn't a debate - the answers have been well understood by sociologists and psychologists for quite some time. Today I'll be sharing the 6 most attractive features that men look for in women - These are the traits that turn women on the most. 

I'm going to give you four strategies you should be using every time you attend a speed dating event to start filling up your match cards with women's numbers. Speed dating has been around for decades, and I've had a lot of viewers message me asking if I could make a video about speed dating. The great news is that it's actually not that hard to get really incredible results from your speed dating sessions if you know what to do to get women to want to tick YES to you on their ranking cards. 

The secret success formula that allows anyone to become successful at anything in a surprisingly short amount of time. Learning how to become successful with women, or in business can often prove very hard work, and leave many people feeling like they're in a rut that they don't know how to get out of. For many of us, success can feel completely unobtainable, and we don't know how to get there. Today I'm going to share with you the COMPLETE SOA formula for success, including all the elements required to become successful at ANYTHING you put your mind to.   By making sure you're getting this formula right, you can cut down the time it takes you to build success in your life to months rather than years!

Did you know that going NoFap can have potentially dangerous side-effects? It's really important to understand the underlying reasons why you masturbate frequently so that you can learn to best manage your symptoms when you go NoFap. Going NoFap can actually cause men to take on other forms of addictions as a way of compensating for struggling to manage one's own stresses and frustrations in life. So today is a bit of a guide as to how you should get started with NoFap while being mindful of avoiding some of the potential pitfalls along the way.

Is playing hard to get really the best dating strategy for men? Should we pretend to be less available, take longer to reply to texts, act mildly disinterested to make women like us? I believe this is a terrible dating strategy that will ruin many more chances of success than it will help you to be more successful with women. In fact, if you want to get more women to chase you and be attracted to you, you're going to need to learn to BECOME harder to get, rather than spend time trying to PRETEND to be hard to get. This is an incredibly important dating distinction - girls's aren't stupid and can always tell the difference between the two. 

Is online dating rigged? Are apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, purposely screwing with you to make you pay for matches? Today I'm going to explore what's happening below the hood for online dating apps and websites, so you can better understand why things are so frustrating. But don't be too alarmed, there is a silver lining. As it turns out, just because it's hard to get matches and right swipes from cute girls online - There is actually a way to get much better results than you're used to. 

Toxic femininity is the evil twin sister of toxic masculinity that many women pretend doesn't really exist. In this video, I take the time to explore the world of toxic femininity, first outlining some of the more dangerous lessons our society teaches to young women, then to look at how we should handle cultural baggage that men and women bring to their dating lives. It can be hard to know how to find a good quality partner in a world that seems to be so full of anti-male propaganda, but I'm going to provide a bit of an insight as to how I personally work on myself as a man and approach dating. 

Did you know that your Tinder profile could be right on the verge of getting a tonne of matches? Tinder and other online dating apps can be very frustrating, but when you realise that they are actually really similar to other kinds of online advertising, and you start treating your Tinder profile like an online ad, all of a sudden you can use the same principals to radically change your profile. The trick with Tinder and online dating apps is that sometimes small changes can have MASSIVE results, and sometimes big changes might not impact your results at all. But ultimately it's going to take a bit of work if you really want to learn to get it right. 

What are the worst flirting habits that cause men to get rejected? How many are you guilty of? In this video, I'm going to look at 5 bad dating habits that I consistently see are causing men to get rejected by women. Whether it's because they're boring the women to death, or because they're making them feel nervous or uncomfortable. If you want better results in your dating life, then these are the changes you'll have to make. Be sure to check out number 5, because many guys don't realise just how damaging this really is!

Imagine if you could get women to start chasing you on Tinder rather than you having to put in all the work?Most men don't realise how differently women use tinder compared to how we use it - Once you understand the completely different mindest women have when swiping on guys, then you can better understand the frustrating things that women sometimes do. But More importantly, you can start to use the "Tinder Maybe" strategy yourself, to massively boost how attractive women find you, and how hard they'll work to get you to like them back. 

Find out how to avoid falling into the friend zone ever again. Getting into the friend zone sucks,  there's a girl you like, and you've been hanging out with her for months now, and you finally find the courage to tell her how you feel, and she says, I really like you "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS". But when you have a crush on a girl, it's really important not to wait too long to let her know how you feel, or falling into the friendzone will just become the inevitable and there won't' be anything you can do to stop it. 

Where can introverts easily meet women?So you're an introverted or shy guy - and you want to meet women, but you're really not feeling like going to bars and clubs to approach random girls, or approaching random girls on the street?Fortunately, there are lots of alternatives for men to meet women that won't require any cold-approach at all. Introverted dating can best be enjoyed by becoming part of a small social group that engages in hobbies/passions/sports together because it removes the requirement of engaging in lots of small talk, and instead replaces it with meaningful interactions. These 5 ways for introverted guys to meet women are also fantastic because they help you develop a more rewarding and meaningful lifestyle.