Personal Development Unplugged

From "I Can't" to "I Won't": Reframing Your Mindset Empower Yourself to Achieve What You Want Ever found yourself saying, "I can't do that"? This episode dives into the power of reframing that statement to "I won't," and how this simple shift can empower you to take control and achieve your goals. Discover how to break free from limiting beliefs and self-doubt, and learn to embrace new challenges with confidence. We'll explore:   Why saying "I can't" can limit your opportunities and how others perceive you. The origins of limiting beliefs and how to question their validity. The empowering effect of choosing to say "I won't" instead of "I can't."   You'll learn:   How to take responsibility for your actions and decisions. Practical steps to reframe negative thoughts and emotions. How to build confidence by acknowledging your fears and taking small steps towards your goals.   By the end of this episode, you'll have a new perspective on how to tackle challenges and turn your "can'ts" into "wills." Re

Hopes And Wishes What's the difference between hopes and wishes and how strong is your belief in a wish or hope. How can we make hopes and wishes turn our dreams and goals come true? It's all around intention and equally important expectation - YOUR intention YOUR expectation! when you hold this that;s when things start changing. Please take 5 minutes to learn my take on this and how we can effect our unconscious mind - you goal getter and taking conscious responsibility for the action you intuitively now know what to take. Please share : https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-464-hopes-and-wishes/ And the video link https://youtu.be/ZsQICMc4HF4 Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to

HYPNOSIS RELEASE Learning from our life stories If you want the straight hypnosis track from #411 without the chat before and after here it is. All you have to do is go to https://paulcloughonline.com/podcast It's downloadable so it's yours forever with my compliments. Please remember it is hypnosis and you should have nothing needing your attention whilst listening - it's your time Paul I’m a therapist but not your therapist The information with this website or online work, techniques and exercises provided within these free and paid products are for educational purposes only. Do not use the techniques or exercises contained within some of these free or paid products whilst driving or operating machinery, or if you suffer from epilepsy, clinical depression or any other nervous or psychiatric conditions. The information provided is not a substitute for proper medical advice. If in doubt, please consult your doctor or licensed medical practitioner. Any decision you make having received any of Paul Clough's fre

Learning From Our Life Stories - Part 2 Let's put this within a HYPNOSIS process Unlocking Deep Learnings from Life's Experiences Welcome to a special hypnosis session designed to help you extract profound learnings from your life's aha moments and even your negative experiences. This track is a companion to the longer podcast episode on learning from our life stories. Prepare to delve deep into your unconscious mind and bring forth valuable insights that will enrich your life. Following on from #410 Learning From Our Life Stories we put the metaphor into practice within a hypnosis process and let's learn from our stories of the past and put that learning available to our future.] Please listen to the previous episode so you get the full intention of the process and the full benefit of the result.] And......] REMEMBER It is a hypnosis track in this episode so if you have anything to attend to, that needs your conscious attention like driving etc. don't press play and wait till you can find a comfortable place

Unlocking the Power of Aha Moments Stories, Metaphors, and Hypnosis In this longer episode, we delve into the transformative power of stories and the hidden metaphors they hold. Join me as I share a poignant story from a recent webinar for my son's Mind Mastery group, which helps people overcome anxiety and find their life purpose. This story resonated deeply with me, revealing a hidden metaphor that can be harnessed through hypnosis. We'll explore:   The concept of finding your "North Star" and aligning with your life purpose. A touching story about self-discovery and living authentically. How to identify and utilize your own aha moments for future growth.   You'll learn:   How to reflect on past aha moments to unlock hidden strengths. Ways to use these moments to overcome self-doubt and excuses. A unique hypnosis process to integrate these insights into your daily life.   By the end of this episode, you'll be inspired to revisit your own life stories and aha moments, using them as powerful tools

Set Your World On Fire Two simple steps to learn We're told to learn from the past so we can make the future without regret and doing the same things and expect a different result. When we learn from our actions of the past we also release all the negative emotions we carry around and let them keep on effecting us. So I have a simple process that takes about a minute and just works. Come with me a find out what to do and please share with others so their life can become richer too Please share   https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-463-set-your-world-on-fire And the video of this episode https://youtu.be/390shUQPW2o Shine brightly Paul  Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback. If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to subs

The Magical Question: Unlocking Your Success How One Question Can Transform Your Outcomes Ever wondered how a simple question could change the way you approach your goals and interactions? This episode introduces you to a powerful question that Paul uses to set himself up for success in various aspects of his life. Get ready to dive into a world of imagination and visualization that will help you unlock your full potential. We'll explore: The concept of the magical question and how it prepares you for success. Why it's crucial to know your stuff and trust your skills. How to flip your fears and focus on how good things could be. You'll learn: How to use the magical question before meetings, coaching calls, and other important events. Why enjoying the process is key to achieving better results. Practical steps to integrate this question into your daily routine for enhanced performance and confidence. By the end of this episode, you'll have a new tool to help you approach challenges with a positive

The Secret Of Practicing For Perfection is that there isn't one   :O) Starting from the false statement that practice makes perfect in this 5-Minute Quickie episode we'll explore what practice actually makes and how to use that to improve anything you want. We have to remember if we practice badly, whether it's in our mind or in real life, we will do it badly and no matter what, if we practice the same way our results will only get worse. So with that held firmly in mind let me share some ways we can ensure what we practice improves. Please share and subscribe: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-462-the-secret-of-practicing-for-perfection Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to App

In Search Of An Easy Life Simplifying Complexity Ever feel overwhelmed by complicated processes and information overload? This episode is your guide to breaking down complexity into simple, manageable steps. Join me as I share a transformative story about mind mapping and how it can make learning and remembering easier. We'll explore: The concept of mind mapping and how it simplifies learning. How to break down complicated information into simple, memorable steps. Why some people overcomplicate things and how to see through the complexity. You'll learn: How to use mind mapping for meetings, learning, and problem-solving. Ways to avoid being fooled by complexity and appreciate the genius in simplicity. Practical steps to integrate mind mapping into your daily life for better clarity and efficiency. By the end of this episode, you'll have the tools to clear out confusion, simplify your learning process, and achieve mastery in various aspects of your life. Ready to make life easier? Please share: ht

Getting Rid Of Niggling Negative Emotions I think we've all experience feeling off, sad, down or just a little bit strange in a negative sort of way. It's not big enough to want therapy or dive into a hypnosis track (see below where you can find them) but it would be nice if it just wasn't there. Well here's how to get rid and let it go because if you try to force it away it'll just get stronger. Come with me on this 5-minute episode and learn how Then you'll be wanting to share it too: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-461-getting-rid-of-niggling-negative-emotions And the video link is https://youtu.be/Ewi6H2N9GmM Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to su

I'm Invisible and not heard - The Antidote Be Seen, Be Heard: Overcoming Invisibility Ever felt invisible, overlooked, or unheard? This episode is your antidote. Discover how to break free from the feelings of invisibility and be noticed for who you truly are. I'll dive deep into the power of self-awareness and the importance of recognizing your own value. We'll explore: The impact of negative self-talk and how it shapes your reality. Why writing down your positive traits and intentions is crucial. How to shift from negative affirmations to empowering statements of fact. Practical steps to reinforce your self-belief and project your true self to the world. You'll learn: How to identify and articulate your skills, kindness, and positive attributes. The importance of acting “as if” to reinforce your new self-image. Ways to practice and make these positive changes permanent. By the end of this episode, you will have the tools to be seen and heard, to shine brightly and confidently in all areas of y

Choose How You WANT To Feel Instantly Nothing dictates how you feel. Not the weather, not that person, not the situation - not nothing! They are all excuses., excuse we use to let ourselves off the hook from taking responsibility So who chooses? There's only one person -  YUP YOU! And if we choose then we can choose to feel HOW we WANT to feel. And I'll share with just how to choose and then FEEL IT Become the diver of your bus not the passenger Please share this 5-minute quickie: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-460-choose-how-you-want-to-feel-instantly And See this on video: https://youtu.be/Rch-5nvTAMo Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to subscribe O

Creating Great Relationships Building Great Relationships: A Recipe for Connection Wouldn't it be wonderful to have great relationships and connections in all areas of your life? Whether you're feeling lonely, struggling with a relationship, or seeking to improve relationships at work, socially, or that special one-to-one connection, this episode is for you. Join us as we form a recipe for great relationships. We'll cover: The importance of identifying the type of relationship you want. How to learn from past relationships—good, bad, and everything in between. Creating a personalized recipe for the relationship that brings you joy.   You'll learn: How to identify what you truly want in a relationship. Steps to manifest the relationships you desire by focusing on the feelings and qualities that matter to you. How to attract people who match your relationship recipe and let go of those who don't.   By the end of this episode, you'll have a clear process to follow and the mindset to attract, create a

 See Hear and Feel The World Differently A 5 second process to bring you straight into the now, the present. In this world of noise and distractions we need this to bring us back into ourselves and the world. You'll close your eyes so no driving or if you need your attention to be safe, you can always come back. So any time, from standing in line, waiting in a busy room,maybe that stuck feeling creating and even in boredom this will make you see, hear and feel your world right now. Please share this little gem: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq459-see-hear-and-feel-the-world-differently   And as always now the video: https://youtu.be/0CmEmHHTzxg Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straigh

 You're More Than you Think You Are A Simple Understanding to Change Your Life Ever wondered how your past decisions still influence your present life? In this episode, we explore the simple yet profound understanding that when we adopted our current issues, we lacked the wisdom, experience, and learnings we now possess. By tapping into our present skills and knowledge, we can transform our lives for the better. Join me as we discuss:   Reflecting on your earliest memories and the limited wisdom you had back then. Understanding how inherited beliefs and values shape our behaviors and emotions. Recognizing the abundance of skills, experiences, and wisdom you now have. How to access and utilize your current resources to overcome old limiting beliefs and negative emotions.   You'll learn:   A simple process to connect with your younger self and send positive emotions and wisdom back in time. How to identify and replace old, inappropriate programs with your current, empowering beliefs and behaviors.

Finding Good Vibrations No - Not the Beach Boys Just a quick story of finding a place not where I expected to find it and I felt what it had to give. Our Hypnotherapy rooms are the same, they hold the feeling of good change and of safety and comfort because of all that's been created in them. And guess what? You can find the same where ever you are. Take a 5-Minute  Quickie listen to find out how Then share what you learn: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq458-finding-good-vibrations/ ‎ Oh! nearly forgot the YouTube video of this episode https://youtu.be/ixqBBmJgo2w Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to subscribe OR leave a review Remember for my speci

Overcoming Naysayers: Your Path to Success Ever felt held back by those who say you can't achieve your dreams? In this episode, we tackle how to deal with naysayers and turn their negativity into your driving force. Through two compelling personal stories—one from my own life and one from my son's—you'll discover how to transform your dreams into reality and live the successful, rich life you deserve. We'll cover:   How to recognize and push past the negative influences in your life. Personal anecdotes illustrating the impact of naysayers and how to overcome them. Practical steps to maintain your focus and motivation despite external negativity.   You'll learn:   How to decide for yourself and not let others dictate your success. The importance of surrounding yourself with supportive individuals. Techniques to anchor positive feelings and use them to propel you forward.   By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with the mindset and tools to ignore the naysayers and achieve your goals. Ready

Change Your Emotion In A Heartbeat If Your feeling down, sad or simply not just quite right how would it be if you could change that? right now? The problem is that when we do feel down, sad or simply not just quite right we just want to feel say, happy. We say to ourselves 'If only I could feel happy' and we don't and there is a reason why. Simply, its a jump too much, it's too bigger leap. In this 5-Minute Quickie episode I'll share with you a way to be able to do this. It's simple when you know how, and we do love simplicity here. So invest just a little time with me and learn how to change your emotions, step by simple step. Please share this episode so others may learn of what we do here: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-457-change-your-emotion-in-a-heartbeat And the YouTube link is here: https://youtu.be/MUg6WF8iUL8   Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and

Unlocking the Power of the Miracle Question Ever wondered if miracles are real? In this episode, we delve deep into the concept of the "Miracle Question" and how it can transform your life by eliminating anxiety, boosting confidence, and alleviating sadness and grief. Join me as we explore:   The importance of recognizing changes to celebrate progress. How to envision life without your issues through the Miracle Question. Steps to identify how you would feel, behave, and believe once your problems are resolved.   You'll learn:   How to use the Miracle Question to gain clarity on your goals and dreams. Ways to visualize a future free from your current struggles. How to leverage this technique to create new opportunities and ideas.   By the end of this episode, you'll have a powerful tool to help you imagine and realize a richer, more fulfilling life. Ready to experience your own miracles? Share this episode and help others unlock the power of the Miracle Question: https://personaldevelopmentunplug

Check Your Batteries A true life metaphor Because some steps in life are simple it doesn't mean they can be overlooked - because they are also the most important. The thing is we don't know this until we miss them out. This is true story of mine that shows this to so painfully true. And like all 'mishaps' when we learn from we learn BIG! And the effect spreads far and wide. Have a listen. It'll only take about 5 minutes and you can learn from my 'mishap'  :O) https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-456-check-your-batteries/   And the YouTube Video of this is here https://youtu.be/L6Up2-an9GU Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to subscribe OR leave a review Reme